Does it bother any girls out there if your spouse/partner uses adult websites?
@lisharenee8806 (11)
United States
July 9, 2009 12:15pm CST
My current boyfriend is what i call addicted to adult websites, he works thrid shift and i work days s all of the times ill already be at work by the time he gets home from work. and so he will get on the computer and do his thing. He does it quite offten. he says it helps him sleep. but i just plan out think he is addicted to it. one time we went on vacation to flordia for a week and when we got back the first thing he did was check his sites for updates. i mean, come on that is plan out just wrong! So i was wondering if i was the only one that it bothered. i wanna know how everyone else feels about it and maybe a guys perspective on it would help me out too.
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@emmasmomma89 (266)
• United States
9 Jul 09
I dont really care if my husband gets on adult websites. he likes to get on them when he gets home from work, but he still wants to do stuff with me, and i figure if the worst hes doing is looking at that, then im not too worried. he could be out sneaking around with other girls, so if its strictly on the computer, it shouldnt be too bad. If it worries you that much, i would sit him down and ask him if there was something you can do that will get him away from the computer more. See what it is that attracts him to that and see if you guys can work something out.
@maezee (41997)
• United States
10 Jul 09
It does sound like he's addicted. I definitely think people CAN get addicted to that kind of stuff; as weird as that seems. I think it's OK for them to do every once in a while - I kind of consider it a guys' right of passage (sort of) but like anything, once it starts interfering with everyday life, it begins to be a problem!
@chelsit (105)
• United States
9 Jul 09
Watching adult movies once in a while is no big deal especially if you do it together, but if everyday he has to watch it to put him too sleep then he has a problem, you nee to put a stop to it tell him we can watch it together but I see no reason for you to watch it by yourself.
@jules67 (2788)
• Philippines
10 Jul 09
I think that it is pretty normal for any woman to get bothered when her partner
is watching adult websites. One might think that he is not happy with the relationship hence resorting to temporary relief. You can also surmise that there
is a tinge of perversion in your partner.
A serious communication has to be done at least the woman would know why such thing occurs.
