I believe my sister owes me an apology

Canada
July 9, 2009 9:38pm CST
About six weeks I rescued a little kitten. The kitten spent the night with me in my home and then I took it to the Humane Society the next day. When I got home I was so proud of myself I put my accomplishment up on my Facebook page. A couple of days ago my sister wrote on my wall, "what kitty,don;t tell me you have another friggin mouth to feed. I then got angry because I had done a good thing and here she was slighting what I did. I wrote on her wall that she would have done the same thing. She then said that she was joking I discussed what she said to my friend and my friend said she meant to hurt me. Anyway fast forward to today, I was on the phone with my sister I wanted to see her. I was in the same town as her she expected me to apologize to her and I was willing to do that. But she owes me one too. Don't you think?
5 responses
• United States
10 Jul 09
She owes you an apology, what she said was just petty and not funny at all....you did something really wonderful and humane, and she took that chance to make some mean joke that makes her sound cold, why do you need to apologize to her?????????? she was the one who was sarcastic, she owes you an apology plain and simple.
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
10 Jul 09
hello there! actually if knows that she hurt you, then she will probably say sorry to you and apologize, but if she didn't realize that she have hurt you, then maybe she will not do it... but you, if you feel that you say something that hurt her then go, apologize...and i think that's the right thing to do... but again, don't expect anything from here, if you feel that as if nothing happens and everything is okay with her then let it be and do not ask her to ask for an apology...what is important is you have forgiven her already even if she is not apologizing yet... she's your sister and things like this really happens between sisters... with your friend, no offense but i think its not proper for her to actually judge your sister that way...she should not tell that to you coz look what happens, it gives you a thought that it was your sister's intention to hurt you...what if she's not? you know your sister more than her... well its just my opinion... have a nice day!
• United States
10 Jul 09
Wow...your sister sounds like a very pessimistic person who isn't fun to communicate with. She owes you an apology; you do NOT owe her one. I think that if she didn't know that would hurt you, then she's at least ignorant. Could you imagine posting something like that on her Facebook if she were in the same situation? Really--what was she thinking? That was uncalled for. Maybe after she apologizes you can encourage her not to comment on your profile if she has nothing nice to say. She blew this out of proportion.
@kad666 (172)
• Canada
10 Jul 09
humm im not sure about that you know your sister better than anyone if she meant to joke its ok but if she meant to hurt you she own you more than one^^ but you know more than anyone what she wanted to do,well thats what i think.
• United States
10 Jul 09
You apologized to her. I think she owes you one too. She may have been joking, but you didn't know that and she upset you, right? Kudos to you for helping out the kitty, btw.