Does being single makes you happy or unhappy? in what way?

Philippines
July 10, 2009 12:51am CST
I'm just curious. Why does some single says they are unhappy and some says they are happy and contented with their life being single......
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• United States
11 Jul 09
being single makes me happy because it shows that i am independent and i don't need a man to make me happy. i feel so needy when i have a boyfriend and a little bit arkward i don't know what to do around him. or how to act. and also 2 guys like me and there friends and all we all do is argue. and i'm like its so complicated already and i'm not even with them. so i said no to both of them and it made me feel bad but good at the same time. i don't like being tied down i'm a free spirit. and i'm unhappy just because i see couples together and makes me a little sad. i want to find my special someone too. i want to be happy and in love. i never have been.
• Philippines
11 Jul 09
Well sometimes singleness can be so sucky, as it sometimes makes you feel left out, rejected or lonely but you see I've never been this happy being single =D I learned to live my life on purpose and I've become more focused on my studies and career, had more quality time with family and friends and from time to time I have the opportunity to reassess myself.. I promised myself not to venture out for someone less rather just wait for the right person for me.. I know he'll come in a right time, like a butterfly who flutters freely and will soon land in a beautiful flower because it's already springtime =D - from my blog =D
@cainlim (19)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 09
i think it is well depending matter tho~ as for me i think being a single is kinda boring in my life... maybe some of them enjoy their freedom life. For some reason why some single are so unhappy being single maybe they haven't start any relationship before and walking on the street look at some lovely couple might affect their mood.