Is your partner (wife/husband) supportive on whatever you like or enjoyed it?
By mobhomeir
@mobhomeir (7558)
Philippines
July 10, 2009 12:52am CST
Hey guys I have a problem with my partner. Honestly I don't really understand what kind of attitude she has in terms of whatever I like most or whatever I enjoyed much.
When I was having my first cellphone , she keeps on observing and complaining about it. Suspecting of someone else that I used to txt. That was always the cause of our nonsense quarrel, suspecting of someone else. The truth is, mostly that were almost all of my clients calling and texting me. Now, here comes my PC, same again, she's always looking some ways just to stop and interrupt my online business...
How about you guys, is your partner same as mine?
Can you share it with me?
Your reply is highly appreciated...Thanks
3 responses
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Jul 09
nah,my ex-is not supportive as well,but he does gives me the latest series of mobile phone and now the latest version of acer laptop...hahaha what to say then my friend,do not blame your wife for being suspicious ,she just love you that's why she's kind of jealous.enjoy her jealousness or u will missed it when she stops nagging at you =)
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
13 Jul 09
I understand that my friend but I guess she must put it in a right place because everything that is too much would not be good...Thanks for responding..
@zzyw87 (1254)
• Philippines
10 Jul 09
I am very lucky that my boyfriend is supportive of everything I do especially my hobbies. He just let me enjoy whatever it is I am doing. He never restricts me. In return, I also let him enjoy his own hobbies. We just make sure that our respectvie hobbies don't get in the way of our relationship. We always make sure to spend quality time together. Lastly, we trust each other. That is why we don't doubt whenever he/I spend a lot of time on the net, with friends, etc.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
13 Jul 09
Yes. Same thing with before we got married. But, the table turns upside down when we settle down already. I just hope this would not happen to you...just be observant before things goes to regret...Don't get me wrong my friend, I was just to share what I observe in my married life...Thanks
@Meljep (1666)
• United States
10 Jul 09
The attitude/action seems to be coming from insecurity.
She's not sure if she's the most important woman in your life, and she's acting it out in this way.
Is there something you can do to take this relationship to the next level to assure her that she's the only woman that will ever matter to you?
Sounds like she's a well-meaning person, just wants to be sure.
Trust is a hard thing to re-establish after it's been broken. It can sometimes take decades. The person that broke the trust should not feel inconvenienced if they have to be transparent in order to get the trust back.
Good luck with everything!
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
13 Jul 09
Yes I got what you mean. But, on my side, I never had an illicit affairs ever since in relationship. I am a going straight-man, I've done nothing that put her into suspicious, no, nothing at all, honestly...I just don't why this happening to me..Thanks for responding..
