Are you close to your mother? Like best friends?

United States
July 11, 2009 2:29am CST
Hi everyone, are you close to ur mom? right now,yes im so close to my mom, i can tell her evrything..if i have a problem or some stories with my husband, but before it all happened, i wasn't that close to her, i dont tell her if i have problems or somethings bothering me. Since i got married and have a lil princess, me and my mom's relationship changed. we were just so close. I remember when I was pregnant, she wasn't on my side to guide,support and help me. she got mad when she found out i was preggo.She wasn't ready to be a grandma i guess... It was so hard for me, i don't know what to do in my whole pregnancy. . i was hurt too,but i just told to myself and also pray to God that hopefully someday me and my mom would be close together, and after I gave birth..it all happened. she is happier than ever and we are so close that she looks like my sister!!! now were just so close. =) im happy. Thanks to God!! How bout ur experience? Do u have one? I hope you can share ur happy ending stories..... thanks for responding in advance... peace out!
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@busta1 (1026)
• United States
11 Jul 09
Growing up I was never really close to my mother. We never really got close until I was 18 and she kicked me out and I actually left. It really suprised her. After a few months she wanted me to come back home so I did. About a year and a half past by and once again the tension was back in the air so i decided to leave again. This time I had a job so I got my own place. Then I found out that I was pregnant. I was scared to tell her not knowing what she was going to say. But she was so excited. Now my mother and I are so close. We tell each other everything.
@devideddi (1435)
• United States
24 Sep 09
no not really. We don't live near each other but when I do see her we do have a clossness. I can tell her some things and I respect her and I know she is a wise lady and I love her. But I was the last of seven kids and ten pregnancy's and I think she was a little tired of kids by the time she got to me! And as life has turned out I don't get to see her very often. I am trying my best not to let the same thing happen with my children.