Are you people afraid of the future, the unknown?
By meyows
@meyows (438)
India
July 12, 2009 6:13pm CST
Then you guys need my tips to handle the situations. I am ready to help you with my knowledge. Generally we'll be afraid of the future, which is unknown to us. Like some examples: We had invested our money in some HYIP's and don't know whether we get profit or loss. Another example: we loved someone and expressed to our love. We don't know what's going to happen, what we are going to get in reply, either it could be a positive answer or negative. and so on. We can take many examples in our day-to-day lives.
The easy way to overcome the tensions and worries about future is "Face up to it."
Yes, If a man faces up to it, and takes the dare of the future, he can have some control over his destiny. We should be well-prepared to accept the result whether it is for or against us. When we are sportive in thinking we'll not take wrong decisions and we'll have control over the destiny at least to some extent. That's an exciting idea to me. Better than waiting with everybody else to see what's going to happen. Guys it really works.
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@sarafii74 (106)
• Australia
13 Jul 09
Thank you! meyows
Actually I am very afraid of my future now, especially about the relationship between my boyfriend and me. I am afraid my parents dont like him, we have to separate in the future or some thing like that. I talked to my boyfriend, he always said, dont worry! dont think too much, just think about the solution when the problem comes to our face.
He is a rather positive guy. He dreamed a lot about our future, while I am a negative person and I always worry about everything, I want everything to be perfect.
Well, no one knows the future. Now what I can do just trust him, trust myself, dont be afraid.
Have a nice day!
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@meyows (438)
• India
13 Jul 09
Thanks for your response sarafii74. If you really want everything to be perfect, you should change your thinking to positive. Then you can have control on the main issue. Do you remember an algebraic equation: " + * - = - ". What I mean is you are holding yourself back and also you are not supporting your partner to move forward and take necessary steps regarding the problem. He can't do anything if you are remained afraid, he needs your support. When you are both together, none can stop you from getting your desired solution. something is better than nothing right? If you are negative thinker, you can't do anything. Things outside you are beyond your control. But things within you are under your control. ok? What you sow is what you reap; Trust yourself. Think positive and you get the result positive. Good Luck.
@sarafii74 (106)
• Australia
17 Jul 09
Thank you!meyows! Thanks a lot for your advice!!
He also said the similar words, "if we support each other, nothing is impossible, we need to stand by our sides." I am more confident about our relationship now.
Thank you again!meyows! Have a nice day~
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
16 Jul 09
I could relate to certain things you have mentioned above. It means a lot to actually face the music or face the facts, so to speak. There is definitely a whole lot of meaning to it and I have always this opinion that it's the worry that tend to bother us so much rather than the actual thing.
I used to be so fearful of facing examinations and I would sweat and whatnot. But one day, I just got tired of being fearful, face the exams with a certain calmness and finished off with an average results. And there were times where I got good ones too. I think it's like a 'mind over body' kind of thing.
Good discussion here..
