to forgive or not to forgive a lovers promiscuous past

United States
July 12, 2009 6:20pm CST
every body has a past. but if your lover or yourself has had a drug filled promiscuous crazed past and claims to have changed theyre ways since those days would you still accept that significant others past and move on with your lives together or leave them alone?
3 responses
@sarafii74 (106)
• Australia
13 Jul 09
To be honestly, I can not accept this. I choose lover for my entire life partner, if he or she just be as my friend, it's ok for me to keep friendship with. But as a lover, that's impossible. Yes, everyone has a past. Some past can be accepted, but some can not.
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@besthope44 (12123)
• India
29 Aug 10
Well am the first to apologize even if i feel am right. Becoz this is a beautiful relation of marriage and the sweetness is giving more of love, so in love, forgiving and apologizes add more beauty.
• United States
13 Jul 09
My personal opinion . Past is past it should stay there I try my very hardest to not judge anyone based on there past alone. Unless it was something super major. You really gotta look into yourself and ask yourself if you trust your lover. Trust is a mjor factor in a relationship. Again just my opinion :)