The Child is a Bully and so is her Mom: How could you solve this?
By neelianoscet
@neelianoscet (9615)
Philippines
July 13, 2009 3:03am CST
My sister is angry today as her child come running and always crying after schools end. When she ask her child why she is crying. The child tell her in between sobs that her classmate tease her and call her loser. She could not accept it and get on to fight but the bully is much bigger than her with her mom always on her side she grows a bit fighter. my sister like to talk with the child mom but when they meet face to face. The mother reply it is a child world will just leave them for them to solve. My sister really want to stop this bullying to her kids and she worries that the kids mother is unnerving nasty as her kids? What will you do to let this bully mom talk some sense to her kids?
2 responses
@cliff_lim (54)
• Philippines
13 Oct 09
hi
I think when you talk about the mother, we can't do so much, unless your a relatives and knows her attitude for so long and got to know who among your immediate family specially elders that this mother listens to. Even friends will do, though i think she will at the most listen to the former...
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
16 Oct 09
Well, in that case where the child receives extreme bullies most of the times the kids no longer feel excited to go to school for afraid of being humiliated and that is why it is necessary to talk to the mother or with both parents. As I am sure no mother would like to see their child as pitiful being the victim of bullies kids and need to stop them before they ruin your kid mind. Thus, if it is necessary to let both parents attend a meeting with the principal to talk about the cases of their children then have to reconcile. Then mother is also taught to make their children to care for them and be kind not only to their blood line but also to other people as well. Thus, respect should also be the ultimate task.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
26 Sep 09
i just to the mother why she is very angry.i let her first know what is her problem then i proceed to confrontation but i will just talk to her in soft voice so everytings will be ok.i ask who started by asking my son why he bully by his classmates.is he done wrong or nothing.then i will talk to the mother that his son is not behaving properly.then reconcile happen...
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
26 Sep 09
Yeah that is the right things to do to have set a conversation rather than scolding the bully child. child play is for child only, the adults should never get involves or else they would be the one to fight with each other both of them protecting each other child. I t is a good things to let the mother meet face to face and tell the reasons a child becomes bully because of lack of supervision and proper guidance from parents. This talk should be done in a good light not to insult the other party, and the outcomes of the conversation is for both parties to share good parenting between their children so that they would becomes a good adults someday with right principles.
