There has been a big mix up!!!!!! You have got the wrong person......

@dloveli (4368)
United States
July 13, 2009 1:04pm CST
Listen I have been here at myLot for awhile. I think there has been a mistake. I have been starting discussions and been getting some harsh responses. I dont have any idea what you guys are talking about. Please leave me alone. The people that know me here on myLot know that I respond about issues not incidents, unless they are my own. If fools are making stupid remarks about things, they know how ridiculous it sounds. Please there has been a terrible misunderstanding in which I am NOT involved. I come on to myLot to let stress out to people who have been thru similar situations. I have alot going on and dont need to listen to this nonsense throughout every discussion I start. DONT READ ANYTHING INTO MY DISCUSSION. If I have a point to make I will without beating around the bush. If I have confused anyone, I apologize. After finally learning a little about what happened I am totally in agreement with everyone else. IT ENDS HERE! Please note that I dont even have any idea about all thats happened. Leave me out of it. IF you want my opinion, just ask me directly. THanks guys. Next time I will be sure to check and make sure there are no toxic discussions going on. WHAT A DAY! DL
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@Riptide (2761)
• United States
13 Jul 09
I agree with kitty! Moving on sounds like a good thing. Misunderstandings happen and all we can do is learn from it.
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@dloveli (4368)
• United States
13 Jul 09
I think that was my point for the discussion. Only I still dont know what it was about. I guess I never will. Oh well moving on is good. dl
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@Riptide (2761)
• United States
14 Jul 09
Well, you did what any good friend would do. You did for your friend what kitty did for me and what I would do for kitty or any of my friends. Peace
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@dloveli (4368)
• United States
14 Jul 09
YOu know what rip? I am going to admit when I first heard that people were attacking each other, my response was based on that only. I had no idea about a discussion being started. I would defend anyone who is or was being attacked. Now before you misread this, All I mean is that you should have been able to start any type of discussion you wanted without being name called. People will always disagree and that is okay. When it starts to become a name calling situation, well thats not what myLot is about. THat is all I care about. I love myLot. You guys have helped me in times when I really needed it. Please dont think I was trying to insinuate that you were attacking anyone .I just meant that everyone should be adult about it. I understand that things got heated. I felt that everyone was being mean to me and I was only commenting on a discussion about being called names. I am glad its over. I just wanted you to know I have nothing personal against anyone. Im glad your here and hope I will hear more from you and Kitty too. dl
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@Lakota12 (42681)
• United States
14 Jul 09
you have confused me for I have never seen you in any wrong doing of bad conversations. If someone is jumping on you for no reason they should stop it now! hugs
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@dloveli (4368)
• United States
14 Jul 09
I answered a discussion. When I did, someone who had a problem with the creator attacked me assuming I was in on it. From then on every discussion I started, these same people would respond negatively. Thats why I started this discussion. I wanted to make it clear that I am never involved in negativity. I knew the people that are familiar with my discussion and me would know I didnt get involved in a lynching. Thanks Lakota. It seems that you are always there when I need a kind word. Hugs to you my friend. dl
@Lakota12 (42681)
• United States
14 Jul 09
awwwwwwww thanks I always try to help all I can hugs
@roseyroser (1061)
• United States
13 Jul 09
What is up with all the people making stupid remarks and what-not lately? Can't all just be nice? I've seen a bunch of people saying they are being mistreated here on MyLot, that is just WRONG! When I joined MyLot a couple months ago, everyone was great, now people are just becoming mean to other people........I don't get it.
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@dloveli (4368)
• United States
13 Jul 09
Hey Rosey! lets hope you never get to understand it. THis was the hardest week of my life. I mistakenly got caught in the middle of someones beef. I have never had to discuss stupid things like the discussion I made today. I have never been badly treated. In the end it was all a big mistake. I felt that I would let people know so I could pull myself up out of the mess. Welcome. I am sorry if I have given you any reason to doubt myLot. Mylotters are wonderful. I love them all. Hopefully we can get to know each other. dl
• United States
13 Jul 09
You haven't given me reason to doubt MyLot, so don't worry. MyLotters are great. I would like to get to know you as well.
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• United States
14 Jul 09
First off, your standing up for for a friend is an admirable trait. However, to sum up what you, somehow, got dragged into was someone misinterpreting something when she poorly worded a response. I'm only speaking for myself here, but I think she was a bit upset at what she read & saw, & her response was poorly worded for that reason. Then it sort of set off a war that got you caught in the crossfire. Those involved that said let's move forwards from here & enjoy the place - I can mention that they're honest & mean what they say about moving forwards. A lot has been happening on the site itself, & many faithful members of the site have been getting frustrated. I think that may have helped things escalate to where it did.
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• United States
14 Jul 09
I should add that hopefully, it was a learning experience for all - ask before going on the defensive. Even then, the only stupid questions are the ones that go un-asked.
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• United States
13 Jul 09
I'm all for moving on! We ended up on opposite sides of something that REALLY went on for far too long. Doesn't make us bad people, if we got to know each other a little better we might even find something in common. Have a nice day, peace be with you, and happy mylotting.
@dloveli (4368)
• United States
13 Jul 09
I cant even believe I got into this. I am sorry if for any reason I have offended you. I have never been put into this type of situation. I am ending this today. I would love to get to know you. THe funny part is that after I found out what was this about, I totally agreed with you. Here's to a new friendship. dl
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• United States
14 Jul 09
Sounds good to me! One thing we already have in common is that we will not hesitate to get into it on behalf of our friends if we beleive our freinds were wronged in some way. It gets me into trouble sometimes too. LOL Here's to fresh starts and new friendships. Cheers!
@reinydawn (11649)
• United States
14 Jul 09
Well, it sounds like whatever it was is over with. I'm kinda glad I usually miss these things, but sad that you have to go through it. Move on!