What should be the first gift?

@hireshd (492)
India
July 14, 2009 9:44am CST
Hi Mylotters recently I proposed a girl and she too agreed, pls pour in your suggestions for the perfect first gift. She stays in a different country and I cant meet her personally for another year.
7 responses
• Philippines
15 Jul 09
Hi hireshd, its so nice of you thinking for another gift. Well proposing to her i think its enough for her to feel your love. But if you still like to give her a gift, i suggest you give her something sweet and not expensive. Maybe a huge teddy bear. And send her flowers with the bear. This will melt her heart. =) Happy mylotting!
@hireshd (492)
• India
15 Jul 09
Thanks tuliorowena for your response, sending a teddy to USA is too costly for me though :( bt still I can send her flowers instead of both :)
@nigarish (70)
• India
15 Jul 09
hi man congratulations...you are in a bit typical situation...well i suggest you to keep in touch with her and call her and have talk on the cell phone...i think this could a better option than to send her a gift via currier like blaze flash.....but if want to send her a gift...then send her few greeting or post cards!!!i hope this will work....best of luck dudes..
@hireshd (492)
• India
15 Jul 09
Thanks nigarish for your response :) Yeah since we are in different locations it bit different and seriously I cant think of anything else since the timings do not match its bit difficult for us to talk with each other too :( Anyways greeting cards do seem a very good idead!!
@cwachid (160)
• Indonesia
14 Jul 09
During my time-there are no handphone and internet, Mostly I just send my best photo and letter every week. Sometime I just call her when I get extra money. Even on birthday, I am not give a gift/present (only greeting card). After marriage, She show me one box all of my letter. I am very surprised about this... She told me that she always waiting my letter... I would suggested to send of your hobby as gift.
@hireshd (492)
• India
14 Jul 09
Hey this seems to be a good idea thanks for your response, but sending letters is too costly she is in USA and I am in india, emails was an option but it does not seem good option as it does not have the touch of the letters :(
@mrakobesie (1246)
• United States
14 Jul 09
I think it should be something personalized. you can get something with her picture on it, or something related to things she loves doing... I personally don't like stamp gifts, i like gifts that mean something to this person but not others. One of the best gifts i got for example was all Liberty Meadow books, i love Frank Cho, so it was a perfect gift for me, but most girls wouldn't like it lol...
@hireshd (492)
• India
14 Jul 09
thanks for your response:)she is not much into reading so she wnt like too much, i can suggest her to give me a series though.. lol
• Indonesia
14 Jul 09
Waw! congratz =) I think better you give her something that can make her remember you when she see it. hmm..what about a nice dress or clothes? she can wear it anywhere and remember you or feel that you're near her. That clothes can be worn too at the day when you two meet personally another year,, I suggest you to give her a simple t-shirt. buy two t-shirt that has same color or picture on it. give one to your girl and the other one for you. wear it at the day when you two meet^^,, Well, do the best and congratulations^^,,
@hireshd (492)
• India
14 Jul 09
This is a nice idea!! thanks for the response :)
@proxima14 (196)
• Philippines
14 Jul 09
That will depend on the type of personality she has. You might want to consider something you've done yourself or personalized.
@hireshd (492)
• India
14 Jul 09
I want suggestions so I can pick up the best ones, I cant think because of the excitement I have now:(
@eLsMarie (4348)
• Philippines
15 Jul 09
first gift? don't you consider the ring as you first gift? i think the best give that you could ever give to a girl is your love and nothing else... you have to prove your love for her everyday especially that you guys were living apart