How to tell him or her your heart?

@HeidiD (167)
China
July 14, 2009 12:47pm CST
I am scared of being refused.But I want to tell him that I love him. I want your advice and experience.
8 responses
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
15 Jul 09
i think the people in your country are really not that traditional right? hmmm... just tell him that you like him and your not hoping for him to like you too... who knows he might be interested of making friends with you and later become lovers... :)
@HeidiD (167)
• China
15 Jul 09
it doesn't matters traditional,hmm? But in fact I hope hime to love me:( I don't know whether we can be friends as before then...
• Philippines
14 Jul 09
You can tell him what you really feel but be ready for whatever the outcome. Like any failure or success, it involves risk. One thing more, you should not to expect something in return. If things just turned out not the one you're wanting to, make it sure that you will still be a friend to him. Come what may.
@HeidiD (167)
• China
15 Jul 09
can we be friends then...i don't know
@abby01 (65)
• United States
14 Jul 09
Just tell him straight out. If he doesn't accept it his loss not yours. At least you get to tell him/her how you feel. No regrets.
• Ireland
14 Jul 09
just take the plunge its the least thing you can do hunny best of luck. All he can say is no xx
• United States
14 Jul 09
well see we are kinda in the same place. there is this girl, that i am in love with, but i dont really know how to go about telling her that i feel that way, and i dont want to be rejected. either, but, i am of no help, but i wanted to say we are in the same boat....
@HeidiD (167)
• China
14 Jul 09
love is a puzzle in our life.that't true...
@Rodlkm (123)
• Malaysia
14 Jul 09
Rejection is probably the biggest fear for most people although many may not accept the reality so readily. It's rejection or the fear that we are not accepted that we change ourselves or mould ourselves to suit someone else expectation. However, if you keep your feeling within yourself and not tell him, you will prolong your own suffering. If you tell him, the is still a 1% chance of acceptance. If you do not tell him, you have 0%.
@HeidiD (167)
• China
14 Jul 09
Please give me the courage to face it.
@nigarish (70)
• India
14 Jul 09
hii dear hope you are working good.....don't be so scared , you have not comited any crime or something like this...don't feel shy and just tell him that you love him.....thou it doesn't needs to be spoken but if you want him near to you than you must tell him.....simply saying to your feeling to him will not cause you stress.....but you still fear that anything unusual can happen thaen ask him indirectly.........like tell him that you have a close friend which loves a boy ...but she can't gather the strength to tell him her feeling ...what should a girl do....after this listen carefully to what he says and follow......i hope this will make him to understand your feelings....best of luck....!!!!!
@moon1688 (144)
• China
14 Jul 09
by tell him or her directly