What is the Character you hate most in your enemy?

@daliaj (5674)
India
July 15, 2009 12:05am CST
I don't really have many enemies, but I don't like some people and don't prefer to communicate with them. The character I hate most is giving a word (promise) and not fulfilling it. There is a proverb in my country which means 'You can give an elephant as offering, but please don't offer hope'. The pain the other person gets when you don't fulfill the hope is very big. What do you think about this? What is the character you hate most?
16 responses
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
15 Jul 09
The character I hate the most in my enemy is thinking you are better than most people. That character gets under my skin because as far as I'm concerned we are all equal no matter what race, religion, rich or poor.
@akuler (3531)
• Malaysia
15 Jul 09
But that is what happen now-a-days. They are too proud of his/her race and degraded others. Doesn't they know that we are all come from the very same source, Adam and Eve.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
15 Jul 09
You are right. I have come across people who think they are superior to others. I have also come across mangers who think his subordinates are servants in his house and ask them to work like a peon. This is too bad. I hate that character too. I forogt to tell that I also hate people who act they are loivng you so much to please you. Thanks for the response.
@kyh6kr (12)
• United States
16 Jul 09
The characteristic that I dislike the most in people is when people are being hypocritical or acting "two-faced." For example, I am not a fan of people who say one thing and then goes around and does something that is opposite of what they said. This lady I knew would always say that she didn't like people who talk behind people's back. But I always noticed how she is always talking about others when they're not there. Also two-faced could mean something else. I work with a lady who seems like a nice, friendly, and pleasant person. But she always goes to others and talks about how she doesn't like this person or that person. So she pretty much talks bad about everyone even when she acts nice toward everyone.
@Archie0 (5636)
15 Jul 09
An enemy is hated from all ways, there is nothing very special in him or her to hate they dont have any good bad quality lol.But mostly an enemy will always try to show his or her superiority before you or will try to show he is smarter than you and even will win sometimes and that makes me the most angry i guess.
• United States
15 Jul 09
The character (and this is why I absolutely HATE this person) I hate the most is the mentality of "I can do whatever I want because everyone loves me." A classmate of mine has this type of mentality, and he treats everyone around him like dirt, including one of my best friends. Eventually the day came when he needed a ride, and asked her for one (after treating her like dirt, mind you). After she denied him the ride, he apologized, but only in the hopes that by doing so he would appease her and be able to ride home with her, but he eventually stopped talking to her altogether. The only other two people I hate in this world are the people who broke into my house, and the kid who kicked me in the back in 6th grade for no reason whatsoever.
• India
15 Jul 09
I really detest people who are snobs and are too full of themselves. i accept a certain degree of pride in people ,but when that pride is predicated on something that is hollow and superficial, such rampant superciliousness really gets my goat. But one thing I really cannot compromise with is lack of hyegiene or when people are gross and uncouth .
• United States
15 Jul 09
that they think they are better than me
@jshekhar (1562)
• India
15 Jul 09
Hello friend, I am not too much into making enemies either but yes, there always are some people you don't want to talk to.I had a few of those in my college and they had a tendency to SHOW OFF. This is the trait I hate the most. Why pretend to be someone that you're not?
@tundeemma (894)
• South Africa
15 Jul 09
i think i hate people who are so arrogant and full of themselves, some people often feel bigger than normal especially when they just achieve a little success and because of that they want everyone to be under them, i also dislike people who always want to have from you and they are stingy with theirs
@voldrox (7191)
• India
15 Jul 09
hi, first of all i don't use the term enemy, i don't make enemies ... lol... i mean i rather tend to have people that i don't want to talk or meet but certainly not my enemies.... well in my opinion some people are very outgoing and talkative, sometimes they think that people who don't talk much aren't capable of doing anything, this thing really annoys me, what do they know about me when they don't even know me, i know what i am and what i can do, others can't just judge me just by looking at me, every person is unique in his/her way and they have all got something special in them... that is the one thing i don't at all like in those people who show off, when they look down upon other people!....well...
@zearah (5381)
• Philippines
15 Jul 09
Actually I don't like those people who are correcting others where in fact they have all the worst thing than the person they are correcting. It's like see your self first in a mirror if any dirt on your face clean it first before you talk others have it. Well it's good to advise other people but in proper time and place.
• Indonesia
15 Jul 09
regarding with my experience in daily life, I really hate with somebody who want to know my privacy life in detail. And someone who creates the bad rumors. That's my enemy.
@eggnog (46)
• Philippines
15 Jul 09
I hate people who dont have concern to their relatives, especially those who dont respect their parents, older brother or sister, i like to give them a straight right punch. Its not because i want to fight with them its because they have to respect their parents! Parents are always parents and no one can change it. I can say this because i experience it, but i will not tell what happen to us....
• India
15 Jul 09
I am having enemies.I realy hate characters .Like they feel proud ,feel jealous with other.they do mischevious thing.few days backs they had stoled gold chain.Each and everything is wrong in them thats why they are my enemies.They are arogant kind of person.We should avoid these type od friends.
• Israel
15 Jul 09
The caharacter I hate most in my enemy is that they pretends to be nice when they need something...
@akuler (3531)
• Malaysia
15 Jul 09
Hi daliaj, Sorry if I am wrong with this but I have a different interpretation for you discussion header and body. I interpret that the person on the header is someone who is already your enemy and the body is someone who would be your enemy. I don't like my enemy to be a nice person. I want him/her being a untrustworthy, arrogant and selfish. If he/she is a nice person, there is no reason for me to add him/her as my enemy . But I don't like a person and definitely will be my future enemy is he/she have a slanderous habit. The is no more evil the being a slander person. If you kill me, the only person I would hate is you. But if you talk something not true about me, the whole world would hate me. And for that I would hate them back. It mean instead of I have one enemy, I become enemy of the world. You can hate me but please do make a whole world hate me because of your slander. Thanks for a thoughtful discussion and have a nice day.
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
15 Jul 09
I like to make friends with my enemies. I hate to carry a grudge, But it is mostly seen, that when two friends become enemies, we try to recollect only the negative aspects about each other. We dont try to think of the good times we must have spent together. This negative thoughts adds more fuel to the fire. We then start indulging in character assasination and mud slinging to tarnish each others image. I try to forgive and say sorry if i am in the wrong. This i do to even kids, when i have done some mistakes. I believe in the theory,'A wrong is a wrong' whether u do it to elders to to young kids.