What would you do if you could do it all over again?
By esp2_mayn
@esp2_mayn (135)
Malaysia
July 15, 2009 8:22pm CST
Are there things in your life which you wish you could re-do?
Like go after that guy you liked without waiting for him to call you....or
Say something different at the last job interview....or
Called your mum yesterday coz today is too late....or
I know questions like that sometimes bring back memories of things all of us would like to forget. It is always regrets that we try to change isn't it?
When I think about it....reckon there is only one thing I wished differently in my life. That I had studied architecture instead of finance.
Till today, I always wonder....
2 responses
@Ruby_Dawn (617)
• Spokane, Washington
16 Jul 09
There are a few things I would do over. but one of the main ones is I would try to spend a lot more time with my little sister because when she was 17 she was murdered and now I dont have any more time with her :(
@esp2_mayn (135)
• Malaysia
20 Jul 09
Oh....I am truly sorry to hear....
But that was an incident that we never could have forseen....
@dinxcarin (595)
• Singapore
16 Jul 09
I had the same thoughts as you.
I always wondered, "what if" I said this, "what if" I did that, "what if" i was more bold and aggressive
on some stuffs.
So many "what ifs" actually.
But past is past. So I don't linger on it too much.
For I know, everything that happens in our lives today has a purpose.
If we can only look deeper to what our mind and soul is telling us what to do.
We can move on .
Yeah! Just move on with a prayer!
... because LIFE is a cycle.
I tell you, there will be more "what ifs" to come in your life as you keep on breathing.
It will never stop.
All you gotta do is to be smart on it....
@esp2_mayn (135)
• Malaysia
20 Jul 09
Funny you know....I only had What Ifs when I was younger. Now that I am married, I have found that I don't ahve any recent What Ifs.
What Ifs end when your life is more or less cast in 'stone'!
BUt I guess the What Ifs live in the kids? Though it hasn't started and I hope never will.
