when you found out that your friend is jealous to you.

Philippines
July 15, 2009 11:22pm CST
You have promising career, sweet lovelife and charming personality. You have people around that loves you. Then you discovered that your close friend is jealous that she wants to put you down. Any experience like this? I am actually experiencing this, i am so frustrated that they turn out ugly when i am so happy now. I was expecting that they will be also happy for me. Happy mylotting and smile always!
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@busky5 (3164)
• Thailand
18 Jul 09
If i have this friend who put me down. I will get away from her. I will not tell her, but i will not be trust in her again.If she want to talk with me, i will,but i will not be closely.
@julbau18 (273)
• Philippines
17 Jul 09
You cant call her or him as a friend if he/she is acts like that. Friendship also need maturity. Jealousy is none sense so why she had to be like that. If you are happy then she also feels happy too. Just pray and forgive him/her to wantever he.she is doing against you. You're right always smile.
• United States
16 Jul 09
yes i deel with that b4 it sucks
@MissTina (124)
• United States
16 Jul 09
I have experienced it, and I can even be big enough to admit that I was one of those people a few years ago. I was so upset that this person's family was giving them a free ride, paying for everything for them while they went to college, while I was working my butt off and still couldn't even afford it. I became very jealous and just couldn't really ever feel happy for them, after really looking at the situation then I realized that I did not consider that person to be a good friend, nor even a good person to have in my life because they were just handed an amazing opportunity and they were just throwing it away! I think that if you can ever let jealousy come between truly feeling happiness for a friend, then you do not feel true friendship unconditional love for that person! It is very hard to deal with these kind of situations, just make sure that you don't let it ruin your happiness or bring you down to their level. If they speak poorly to you just tell them that you don't appreciate the way that they are speaking to you and leave it alone, as well as leave them alone!
@meyows (438)
• India
16 Jul 09
They should feel happy at my up coming not jealous, I can't bear that in my friend, and I'll discontinue friendhip with them.
@devmitra (274)
• India
16 Jul 09
Helo dear!The problem you are suffering from is very common nowadays.Some friends express their discontentment and some pretend to be good on your face, and are jealous at your back.As social animals we have to continue behaving in a very cordial way with most of them,or else we may exprience or feel that we are left with no friends.Just continue earning success,without bothering over the feelings of your friends.Remember dear,the world salutes the rising sun. Keep working for success and rest everything will follow,including friends.Be normal in your behaviour towards everyone,just like the way you ,might be behaving before achieving success and leave thinking over anything else.Keep smiling.love devmitra.
• India
16 Jul 09
Friends are People You Have to Understand are Normal ............... They Owe You Nothing ....... But In Return Of their Friendship They Want Something WorthWhile Which Is worth Their Time ..... LoL ....... Lot More On MyLoT .........