Would you share you deepest secrets to the one you love?

@tomjoad (551)
Philippines
July 16, 2009 4:34pm CST
secrets! we all have them. each and everyone of us has what they call skeletons on our closet. we had them hidden because we are ashamed that knowledge of it will ruin us. so who do we share these secrets to? is there anyone worth telling it? if telling these secrets would mean saving us, would you tell him? to whom? to the priest, to your wife, to your parents, or to your gf/bf? secrets! everyone has them but not everyone is willing to tell them. if you had no choice but to tell, would you rather tell it to the one you love?
6 responses
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
16 Jul 09
IOf you cannot trust your spouse/partner then you (a) can't trust anyone and (b) shouldn't have a spouse/partner.
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• China
17 Jul 09
that is exactly right,i agree with you spouse and parents are the dearest lovers
• Philippines
17 Jul 09
Yes of course. I'm into a relationship and I trust him for all the secrets I've shared. We both know each others deepest secrets. And I'm glad we are as open as that. Tell someone your secret if you're sure he'll keep it. If you have doubts in mind, then better don't share it...
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• United States
16 Jul 09
I already tell everything to my girlfriend. I love and trust enough to tell her my deepest secrets. And she does the same as well. Keeping a secret away from your loved one isn't a good idea, so might as well let them hear from you instead of someone else.
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• United States
17 Jul 09
I always thought I was the kind of person who would never ever in a million years tell all my secrets to anyone. Then I met my fiance. I don't know how she does it, but she draws it out of me. I tell her everything. I don't think I've ever really trusted someone before, but I definitely trust her. She tells me everything too. I can't think of any skeleton that I have in my closet that she wouldn't understand, and love me anyway.
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@s138329 (37)
• China
17 Jul 09
Yes,I would Becaust I trust her and she trust me and it feels good with share the secrets
@ShibbyKid (279)
• United States
17 Jul 09
I would not share them. People can change their feelings about you and you can not take back anything you have said to that person. I think best friends who have been with you for years are easier to trust with deep secrets than a new love of a few months or years. You never know that relationship with that person will last or who they will be in a few years. Diary's are safe as well. They always get you and many people have them. I feel it is the best way to clear your head and sort things out for yourself.
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