New journey

China
July 18, 2009 9:09am CST
Ahhhh....I'm comin'back..guys.Having finished my senior schooling (it was 3 years but it made me feel like having studyed for a whole century! )an' having received my University Admission Notice(East China Normal University),relaxing and a little nervous for my future learning. I just wonder whether I can adapt myself to such a new situation. Can I get along well with my new classmates? Can I adjust to new studying? Can I learn Russian well(I'll study Russian for main subject)? I'm confused about Russian coz it seems very difficult to announce even if its basic letters. And can I deal with the relationship with the boys well? My parents don't agree me with having a boyfriend. I'll be starting my new journey from Sep. and there's only about two months left for me to think of all the things. I need your help mylotters. All these are confusing me.
8 responses
• India
19 Jul 09
At first it will be tough for u 2 mingle wth new ppl..with matter of time u will definitely move on and gel wth them properly!!! coming 2 russian i knw it is tough but the only way u can get it is hardwork
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• China
19 Jul 09
Hi.Thanks so much .Now that I choose Russian as my major I know that I should be responsible for my future and I will do my best. These's nothing we can't get through,right?
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@vinay316 (300)
• India
19 Jul 09
Honestly I believe the student community is the most easiest community to get along with . They are not bothered by anything or any one and they don't differentiate according to caste or nationality. So you can easily get along with your class mates. As far as learning Russian language goes you can easily learn it, only thing being that you would have to start from basics and try to learn about the Russian culture and you would learn Russian language easily.
• China
19 Jul 09
Hi.Vinay.thanks for your comment. It's true that school life goes easy comparing to the life in society and I suppose the competition in working is more cruel than studying. Yeah.maybe I'm too nervous and I'v heard too much about the "Cruelty"in university from the others. As the saying "Judgement should be based on facts, not on hearsay", I will come through all these several months later and I believe I can succeed in winning my future.
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@chaime (1152)
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
First and foremost, congratulations on finishing your senior schooling. The mere fact that you made it makes me realize that you are a strong individual and I believe you can make it. There will be bumps and obstacles along the way but if you stay steadfast and steady, you can muddle through it all. Yes, your chosen language may be difficult but with perseverance and hard work, I know you'll be able to learn them. I can sympathize with your parents, you are their 'little' girl, even if you think you are already old enough, and having boys around you or having a boyfriend means you're growing up, no parent I think can give up their kids, childhood that easily. And another, maybe your parents fear that if you have a boyfriend it can interfere with your studies. For that I guess you can only try to reassure them, but if it doesn't work. well there's nothing we can do about that and you just have to wing it. As you've said this is a new journey. Then take it as such. An adventure for you and how it all ends will generally depend on you and you alone. No one can decide for you. Not your teachers, friends, boyfriend even your parents, only you. And whatever you decide...Good Luck I know you can do!
@chaime (1152)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
thank you and I am glad to help :) yes, ultimately everything will be up to you, and you seem to be someone with a good head on her shoulders, so I think you're going to be just fine.. :)
• China
20 Jul 09
Hi.Chaime.Thanks for your advice and I'm really in a very good mood right now after reading your response. Indeed, my parents always hold me up tightly and teach me right wrong, and get my feet back on the ground when I meet difficulties once and again.Maybe I do need to face all of these myself. Several years later it'll be my most precious experience , right?_
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@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
19 Jul 09
hi lonelylucie, do not go with boy friends,first you concentrate on your studies and obey your parents words and be polite with them do not lie with them,all these will turn you good in your life, this is only suggestions as a mylot friend iam suggesting obey or disobey is left to you have a nice day
• China
20 Jul 09
He yugasini.thanks for your advice and I'll take it serious.thanks
@zhuhuifen46 (3483)
• China
18 Jul 09
Congratulations. While in a bit of puzzling, you must be overwhelmed by the pride of entering the university after years of hard work. Russian is a special major you have chosen for your career. With the development of the mutual relationship between china and russia, specialists in russian is very much needed, but better to select a second major like economy and politics so that you can play a better role than just an interpreter. The ECNU is a good school and convenient for living. Enjoy your new journey.
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• China
18 Jul 09
Thanks so much. To choose Russian as my major is also unmeant coz at that time there's two languages for us to choose:Russian and Japanese. I'm not very familiar with both an' I just think there's too many learning Japanese so I made my mind for Russian. about selecting the second major I'v never thought coz I'm not sure whether I could adapt to the first. thank you for your advice._
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@julbau18 (273)
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
Congrats. Challenge your self and don't think that you can't. Everything is possible you can do it! Relax and you'll be fine. I advise that you enjoy and feels like it is a normal day to start with. Be confident and face the world. Let your wings fly. It's normal for your parents not agree to have you boyfriend yet. But let you show them that you are trustworthy and can continue your studies till the end. You can talk to them. Never priorities to have boyfriend instead focus on your studies and let the day pass and who knows during your journey he will come. So goodluck and god bless you.
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• China
19 Jul 09
Thank you so much. Nothing is impossible. Yeah, I'v got more understanding of this phrase through your words. This "New" depends on my attitude towards my future schooling and school life,I know. and ...I know that having a boyfriend curtly without a clear understanding of the relationship is somehow crazy and I should be responsible for my life. I'v thought these again and I hope that I can do my best. Thanks again.
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@robert19ph (4577)
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
hello lonelylucie, There's no way you can not cope all of your fears. Indeed you can do all of that. You have all that you need - brain, confidence, perseverance and wisdom. And of course the look. Having all of these, will help you attain your goal and dreams easily. Just focus in all what you do and believe in yourself. Good luck to you.
• China
19 Jul 09
Hi.robert.Thanks for your answer and your admiration._
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• India
19 Jul 09
congrats and friend please chill!!!! u will get 2 adjust properly very soon and den even u wont remember dese tms dat u wer afraid 2 enter a new lyf..
• China
19 Jul 09
Yeah.that's right. Maybe I don't need to care so much coz it's too tired and it's just a waste of time I suppose. I'll adjust the new life and gradually forget my angst. Thanks very much.