Husband seems distant

United States
July 20, 2009 9:51am CST
My husband & I have been married for 20 years. I love him dearly, but sometimes when we haven't seen each other in a couple of days he seems distant, it seems like he doesn't feel like talking to me - telling about his work. Other days he's full of conversation. I try not to make a big deal of it & treat it just like any other day in our life. But there are days where I take it personal. He says he's just tired, but I don't know if I necessarily wholey believe him. I'm not sure if I should talk to him straight about how he makes me feel. Or wait for him to come around. In a quandry.....
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@Azaerus (820)
• Philippines
20 Jul 09
It's normal for men to act like this sometimes but not all the time,you don't have anything to worry about because men also needs space one time or another..sometimes men act like that when they're planning of something..a surprise maybe..but take it from me,it's really normal for us tobe like that sometimes but if this act happens almost everytime then that's the only time you should talk to him..maybe there's also something botherng him and he's having doubt whether or not to talk about it..just be patient I'm sure things will get better..
• Malaysia
20 Jul 09
hi irisann .. i am not sure how wise i can be, but sometimes man need their moments .. let him have his momemnts of private .. wait for him to come and talk But at the same time, i would advise you to be more adventures and naughty .. as this could attract some attention and make him turn his head towards you for a glimpse .. Dont say you are too old for it .. as for me.. the older we get the more romance we should create You can leave a love note on the seat of his car, love note on the pillow or even on the mirror for him to see first thing in the morning Do not think of argument or fight but more romance cheers