Selfish Lovers

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I am in a relationship with a selfish lover and I am really having a hard time with it. Affection is limited on his end, which I like to have. His initiation is nul and void. I feel that if I didn't initiate intimate encouters, that there would not be any. We are complete opposites when it comes to bedroom play. When I'm ready for a second dose to continue with where I left off...He's snoring...I want a second dose. Whatever happened to the steamy four play?(none of that in my life) This really frustrates me in a big way. When you have to get up at 4 am and eat something in order to fall asleep because your partner did not follow through with assisting with the big O. When I look at the big picture of things...either I will end up owning a huge bag of self pleasing toys, in a support group, or cheating. Any suggestions on how to address the issue with my partner?