Are you a faithful person? How much and why?

@icesmile (7160)
Romania
July 23, 2009 10:35am CST
Here we can be honest, no body don t know us, and maybe sometimes people must to be honest and say just if they make some mistakes in life, in this way we can be more honest with our self too. So you are a faithful person or you cheated your partner once, maybe more? Why? if you cheated on him why? Because of curiosity or just you want change something, or maybe you don t love him enaugh? I can say that never i don t cheating, not because he don t deserve, but i respect myself to much, this is real reason....and i think that if somebody cheating once, can cheat again.
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15 responses
@jaiho2009 (38989)
• Philippines
23 Jul 09
Some always says we are humans and prone to make mistakes.I don't judge people who cheat or cheated other people or their partner.It is so easy to judge them,but it is hard to understand why did they cheated.We are not in there position to understand their reasons why they do such thing. But if you ask me,till now i remain faithful to my partner.I wish to stay faithful,as long as i can.The reason is,respecting oneself is the first thing to do before others will respect you/us.So,to remain respectful i always tried my best to be faithful. Besides,it is easier to be honest and faithful rather than cheating.Being honest and faithful we can face everyone without any fear and looks straight into others eyes without pretentions.
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• Philippines
24 Jul 09
I definitely agree with you. If you could remain as faithful as you are you should. There are lots of temptations we just have to be still. Infidelity causes a lot of broken homes. So stay faithful as we can be.
@meapas (2433)
• India
23 Jul 09
I am single so this doesn't concern me. I have all the liberty in the world.
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
HMMM... I think it concerns you too. Being single is not an excused. Everybody has a responsibility with his ownself you cant just exclude yourseld because your single. With that liberty you have is also a resposibility, how much are you willing to risk just because of the word liberty???
@meapas (2433)
• India
24 Jul 09
I should have somebody to be loyal to, is n't it.
• Canada
24 Jul 09
I'm not sure, are you talking about whether people cheat on their spouses. Or are you referring to whether they go to church and how much? I believe you're referring to people's marriages, I don't cheat. I think it's wrong for a spouse to step out on another spouse. If your marriage is over, end it. Then start trying to find someone new. But to leave your spouse while still married to him or her is wrong.
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
Sadly am not sure if i can relate to this since am single. but am a guy, just a regular one. so, if i ever have a partner, more likely i might cheat on her someday. that's why i remain single. sometimes being at that is simply best for me...not to hurt some one else's feelings.
@bingchen (1126)
• China
24 Jul 09
i am a faithful person,this is my rules of being human,i don't hope to do something to hurt somebody,i found this can give me happy as a faithful person,somebody would be willing to close me and make friends with me,why dont we do a unfaithful person?i believe the relationship is very important,somebody can accept me,because i am honest and kind,so somebody feel that i am confident,so i have make a lot of friends,you think whether the unhonest person have real relationship?are you wiiling to accept these persons?it is impossible,so i dont hope to cheat somebody and hurt them.
@marianna45 (1399)
• Romania
24 Jul 09
For me to be faithful is a matter of personality. A good person with a great sense of duty, and who have real feelings never cheat. I am one who is faithful, i make this for myself, i want to look in my mirror with open heart, so...to be faithful is something we must find in our hearts.
• United States
24 Jul 09
I am faithful cause i think its wrong to not be. and to hurt someones feelings that you aint faithful to, cause i think if it was me in that situation i wouldnt wanna be that one who gotten hurt from someone who ithought was faithful and loved and cared about me. so yeah i am very faithful.
• India
24 Jul 09
Well,how much faithful we are and why means it depends on ones belief in God.If the person has faith on God then won't make mistakes and if he made so then he would be loyal and commit his crime.We can be faithful to God,to our parents,friends,partners or to anyone who we love,care about.I strongly believe in god and i am very much faithful to God as well as to my parents.So that's the reason i am a faithful person and I have a fear of God.In case of our partner i dont hav now yet,but in future if i have partner in my life,i will be faithful to him as far as possible.If we are faithful and loyal to others then we we can get respect inreturn from them.
@janebeth (2033)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
hi icesmile, i am very proud to tell everybody in here that i am a faithful person.. i really do, 1000%, lol.. i am just 23 but as far as i am concern i had never been engaged to another guy, i am a super loyal to my boyfriend, even if i don't know if he does the same like me, but what's important that i am not cheating.. i don't care about his way of making fool thing, but i trust him, i really do...!! janebeth.
@jojorv (201)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
we have to accept the fact that humans are weak. we have to continuously remind ourselves about the possible consequences if we plan to cheat on our partner. this is the only way we can control our weaknesses.
• Canada
23 Jul 09
I would consider myself to be a faithful person. I've never been physical with someone else while in a relationship. Surely, I have had unfaithful thoughts, but I never once acted on them (that's relatively normal, I hope). It's just not morally right. I think if I ever chose to make such a decision, I would never be able to forgive myself for it.
@chi2nasrin (1102)
• Malaysia
23 Jul 09
I am faithful to my partner. I am happy with him, what he has and what he gave me. I believe in "what you don't like done to you, don't do it to other people." I love him as he is and there is no reason for me to cheat. I think people who cheat is not happy with their current bf/gf but at the same time don't want to let them go. This is not good for the relationship because a lot of people can get hurt (feeling). So, I am kind of against cheating.
@voldrox (7200)
• India
23 Jul 09
hi frankly speaking i am a bit depressed right now and so i am answering to such questions as these... i believe that i am a honest person, just don't wanna say very honest because i am really being honest here, i am a sensitive guy... i each and everytime believe that people are telling the truth and sometimes people have taken that advantage over me, i just don't get it, why do i believe in something people have to say, maybe just because i speak the truth most of the time i expect others to speak the truth, but unfortunately the world is not such a straight forward place... i have learned this in life and am more careful now... honesty is not the best policy now i guess, smartness is maybe, people cheat and have all the advantages, i have begun to hate such people, the world would have been a much more peaceful and better place right now when such people would have never existed.... that's too much, I am sorry for sounding rude... have a nice day.
@meapas (2433)
• India
23 Jul 09
I am single so this is not applicable to me. I have all the liberty in the world.
• Philippines
23 Jul 09
It is clear that human beings have animal instincts too. That we have build some rules to follow. As not to create a complicated immoral ways from multiple intimate relationships. To avoid temptations degrading to human values.. So when one loves a partner and made an agreement to commit each other as becoming a couple. Then faithfulness should be practiced. A practice and sign of honesty and respect to one another as an important treasured value. There should be presence of discretion or good judgment in decisions of the heart when choosing an ideal partner. Cause love and relationship is not just a mere game to play. It is a commitment and devotion of one's heart and life to another. That applies with important moral values and ethics too. So it was clearly said as not to regret that to choose carefully one's partner in love and life before committing oneself.