Should You Confront a Liar?

United States
July 23, 2009 1:22pm CST
What do you do when you know that someone has blatantly lied on you, usually for their own gain, should you confront them or should you wait until the truth slaps them in the face? What would you do or what did you do in this situation?
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7 responses
• Denmark
23 Jul 09
I know this person, who lies A LOT. Sometimes I confront him, if he says something that is about me or my friends, but otherwise I just ignore him when he talkes about those seventyseven places he has to be. Or about what expensive computer he has, that he hasn't ever brung in school. I don't care let him lie about those stuff, as long as he doesn't say something about those I care about. Or people in general. So my answer to your discussion is: Let them lie about their unrealistic stories - when they say something bad about people such as: "oh she or he has syphilis" or so CONFRONT THEM, because that is NOT okay. Not even if it's just a cold..
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• United States
23 Jul 09
Hi, First, thanks for comment on my post. Second, I think you have to confront a liar sometimes, otherwise they will just keep on lying about the particular situation. Some liars are hopeless, but they shouldn't get off scott clear.
@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
23 Jul 09
I really hate it when this happens. Last year, I was living with three roommates and there was one of them, who kept lying over and over again. In my opinion, for her own gain. We kept confronting her with it, over and over again, but nothing changed. She kept on lying, and I think that she is going to be on lying. She lied to us from the beginning. Even now, it's p*ssing me off, just thinking about it! In my opinion, there's not much to do with liars. You can confront them, but sometimes there's nothing to do about it. Sometimes, they're just not going to change and stop lying to people.
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• United States
27 Jul 09
Hi, So, you had to go through that situation with your roomies. However, I thank you for commenting on the topic, I really appreciate it. Liars, sooner or later wil be discovered for who they really are.
@fasttalker (2796)
• United States
23 Jul 09
I can't stand a liar! My theory is this....confront them right then and there. For the most part you will never see it come out on a liar because they never admit that they have lied no matter what. And if you confront them in it they will usually deny it anyway but at least you have the satisfacion of seeing them squirm!
• United States
23 Jul 09
Hi, Thanks for your feedback, I really appreciate it.
@jojorv (201)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
i prefer to confront the liar and set things straight. if he still continue to lie on me, i will fight fire with fire.
• United States
27 Jul 09
Hi, Thanks for stopping by and commenting. Sometimes a confrontation can lead to positive results and sometime it can be brutal. I don't believe two wrongs would make it right. I say, just let them fall into their own web of lies.
@shegunx (33)
• Indonesia
23 Jul 09
let they go on, coz a liar should make more and more fake story and then when the truth opens , it will make them have no face to see you again
• United States
23 Jul 09
Hi, I thank you for your comment,and I think that is a great idea.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
23 Jul 09
i just don't like it when someone lies just to take advantage, such people must be taught a lesson! lay a trap and let him/her fall into it and then will they know it is so wrong to do that... let them get the taste of it!
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• United States
27 Jul 09
Hi, Thank you for taking the time to comment, I appreciate it. The liar should definitely be taught a lesson and most times they do fall into their own traps.
@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
29 Dec 12
There is no wrong if someone will confront us, but it is more appropriate if done in a proper approach. I won't stoop down on their level if they confronted me in the middle of the crowd. It is not acceptable and I might loss respect to them.