which people you will choose as your friend,the oldder or the younger than you?

China
July 24, 2009 9:26pm CST
Pesonally speaking,i prefer the yonger people to the older people as my friends. because during the people younger than me, i have more initiative.that is to say,i like the leading role! of couse,i won't rufuse the oldder people as my friends! what about you?
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@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
25 Jul 09
Hi there! I love having friends who are older than me most of the time but I like having younger friends too. I have lots of friends who are older than me both in real life and online. I also became friends to younger people when I went back to college because almost every school mate that I have is younger than me and I also became friends with my younger sisters' friends.
• India
25 Jul 09
i like friends who are younger or atleast around my age,but also i like to have friends who are older because you can learn a lot from their experiences in their life.
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• China
25 Jul 09
I think you must make many friends! i absolutely admire your way about friends, i hope you can do better than your words! good luck!
@checkmail (2039)
• India
25 Jul 09
Hello fanxiangqian this is checkmail and often do prefer to do friendship with both elder ones and younger ones.It depends upon the act i am doing.If i am playing then there will be myown age and younger friends and if going to office then there are my elder friends.These both type of friends are helpful in nature as the elder freinds guides us well with their experience, we can learn a lot fom them.And with friends younger than me i can put some of mine idea to practice as well give them some known advises given to me.Mostly the friendly nature is that matters while making a friends and not age.
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• China
25 Jul 09
I accept your standpoints fully! in real life,i think you will do well in making friends! thanks for your response!
• India
25 Jul 09
I don’t have many friends and they are all my age group but my husband has a mixed bag of friends, both younger and older to him. Watching him interact, I can say this much that both have their own pros and cons. Elder friends are more experience with life and family and can give invaluable advise in times of crisis…younger people are more casual and carefree and they help in unwinding and distressing.
• China
25 Jul 09
form your comments,i think you approve that friends are important no matter older and younger,so i hope you can make as many friends as your possible as your husband! Good luck!
• United States
25 Jul 09
I have friends of all ages, young children, young adults as well as adults from all ages. I don't try and choose withing an age group because in my opinion you can learn from all walks of life. Regardless of age, we all have been through different journey's that brings each of knowledge that we can share. We never stop learning if we choose to take in the knowledge from any direction it happens to come from.
• China
25 Jul 09
IN china,there is a saying,there must be your teacher among the three people that walk along with you! i think you did very well! however, i want to say,we can't always think get from our friends,we should give,after all, they are oue friends! thanks very much for your response!
• United States
25 Jul 09
I enjoy having older friends. I find my conversations flow more easily due to the younger people not trying to impress me. Although Ive lost many friends these past two years due to people moving after high school. So these last two years ive found myself with fewer friends but they are still easier to talk to and are more understanding of my problems when I need help.
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• China
25 Jul 09
It will help you more mature and more wit to make frieds with the oldder people.however i hope you can give yourself a childlike innocece. after all,we are young!lol,thanks for your response!
• Philippines
25 Jul 09
For me age is just a numerical figure it doesnt count what age of your friend is as long as you knew into your hearts that you will be there for each other. Also for me younger friends makes me feel young and older friends helps me to gain more wisdom. If i combine old and young friends it spice up my life...
• China
25 Jul 09
i hope both of us will make friends with the older wisdom people and the younger great-hearted people!best wishes for you! good lcuk!