i dont belive in men saying
By syankee525
@syankee525 (6293)
United States
July 25, 2009 8:58am CST
i've heard so many men say allow her, or i made her do this or that. to me who dont allow or make her do anything. you make a dog do this or that or allow it
but to me when a man saying this to me it make it sound like she's his proptry. and no one is anyone proptry.
how do you feel when you hear a guy say i allow her, or i made her. ?
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3 responses
@littlefranciscan (18376)
• United States
25 Jul 09
It kinda depends..some people go into relationships knowing one is more dominant then the other..
If I were seeking a relationship.. which I am not at moment.. I would want the man to be more a man and the woman more a woman..
I wouldn't want a man to be a sissy and the woman to be macho..
I do think there are particular qualities that make a man a man and a woman a woman..
The bible..for those who beieve in it..says woman should be submissive to their husbands..but also husbands should love their wives.
@syankee525 (6293)
• United States
25 Jul 09
it has nothing to with being dominant at all. because i dont use or say i make my wife do it, or allow her to do it. does mean i am a sissy and i am no sissy, relationship is a two way street.
when guys use these saying and she allow him to speak this way to her. he's a control freak. but if a femalel allow a b/f or husband speak this way to her, and treat this way
first controling, then she'll get sick of it, then comes the abuse. and then cutting her off from friends and family seen it too many times.
but never allow anyone sit there and tell you what you are allow to do, or let them make you do things that you dont want to do. it's not the proper thing in a realationship at all.
