have you ever been blame for something?

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or have you ever blame yourself or have you ever blame someone if something happens to you? i have been in this situation where i am blamed for the break up of this 'friend' of mine to her long time boyfriend! its not because i'm a third party but because i come to know something about this girl and out of curiosity i ask my bf if this girl and his friend are still together coz somebody saw her partying with other guy and she is really close to the guy, they stay in the party the whole night and drink and smoke...and so i am shocked to know that coz as far as i know she already have a bf who is the friend of my bf... and my bf als didn't know if his friend and this girl are still together and so when he saw their other friend, he ask him about it...and this other friend tell the story to the bf and that triggers their break up! right after knowing what his gf do, he went to her home and talk to her and break up with her...this girl gets hurt coz they have been together for almost 5 years then, they just get separated coz the guy was assigned in another place because of his work... and when she find out that the info came from me...she and her other relatives, her friends and even some of our common friends get mad at me and blame me for what happen to her...they snob me and don't talk to me... i apologize to her but she refuse to accept it and told me that i am so unfair and that i'm not a real friend...ouch! that hurts! i really feel bad about what happen and feel guilty that i should not have tell that to my bf...coz i don't really expect that her bf will know it...and so i also blame my bf and their other friend for what happened coz i lost a friend, actually plus i look like a villain here... but my bf told me not to feel guilty coz actually the bf is thankful to me...huh! coz he already have plans of breaking up with the girl its just that he don't have any reason in doing so and he's waiting for the right timing...and that incidence is his right timing and very nice reason...coz he said that his gf lied on him...he asked her about the incidence and the girl denies it...but her other friend who's with her in the party confirms the incidence to him...and what is worst is that...before going to that party, her gf ask for permission to him and he says no...but girl still go and disobey him...and even do those things that she suppose not to do... the girl now is doing good and already moved on and her bf is already married... i still saw the girl whenever i have a vacation in my place but there's really a wall between us and friendship is really gone...i guess... so up to now, i m still thinking if i really deserve to be blamed in this situation... how about you? have you ever experienced being blamed? ever blame yourself or someone? thanks and have a nice day!