Brunettes or blonds; whats the difference?

I am a brunette naturally but my husband prefers blondes so I have been bleaching my hair for years now. I noticed that I got lots more attention from men once I lightened my hair. I think men think women are sexier with blonde hair more so than brown or black hair. Personally I don't get it, but I am not a man. I think I looked better with my brown hair but I tried to go back to the real color a few years ago and it just looked too dark on me at that point. What's more I found out that I have a lot of gray in my hair so I might as well just go ahead and make my husband happy and keep it light blonde. Have a great day and happy myLotting!!!