would you cheat?
By pbrockington
@pbrockington (500)
United States
9 responses
@friendship4lyfe (520)
• Saint Lucia
26 Jul 09
well i have cheated but i know its wrong.Its not cool and sometimes the person you cheat with embarrasses both you and your partner.These situations are not something i care for.Some men do cheat just cause and so does women but there are people who cheat because they feel that its the only way to be happy without living the present relationship.
@pbrockington (500)
• United States
26 Jul 09
I too have been cheated on. It hurt more then I can put to words. I still am feeling like I don't want to trust him. I also feel like maybe i would feel better if i cheated to.
@skyhss (1142)
• United States
26 Jul 09
i love you too baby:)
i think doing it back to him would make you feel even worse because then you would add guilt (?) to what you're already feeling. maybe not, i don't really know because my relationship was already heading south and it was another just another nail in his coffin so to speak.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
22 Aug 09
I couldn't imagine myself cheating on my boyfriend no matter what. If at some point I become unhappy with him or someone else sparks my interest I would either end the relationship or figure out things arent what they used to be. Cheating to me is never an option.
@surfacesur (153)
• Denmark
26 Jul 09
I have not ever cheated. I think it is wrong. I would much rather let my guy give some girls 'a look' and them him say they are hot, instead of him sneaking around. No one likes the sneaking. You just need to be a little more free minded. That is the solution. Do not be so controlling.
@pbrockington (500)
• United States
26 Jul 09
I don't think controlling is me. I fight the eage to go get what i am not getting. but thanks for commenting.
@shahida01 (5)
• United States
3 Aug 09
if you really love the person and you feel the relationship is right why cheat and if you feel the need to cheat that means the relationship isnt right.
@alicia2330 (1)
• United States
19 Aug 09
I agree. I was cheated on and then I did it back to the person, and in the end I just realized that things were not right and we weren't happy to begin with. I have since moved on and when you are really happy in a relationship there is no urge to go outside of it for anything.
@MCWoods (28)
• Australia
22 Aug 09
I have never cheated when in a relationship. I sincerely believe that once you are in a relationship you should honor and respect it.
I know of a married woman that found out that her husband cheated on her and she decided to cheat on him as a revenge. But she didn't just stop at cheating once with one man. She continued to cheat many times with different men. Now she says that she doesn't care if her husband cheats on her or not.
@Bloggership (1104)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 09
I feel so naif to say this but, i just wanna share about me regarding this discussions... I've cheated my women couple of times... I do felt guilty for that... But what can say?.. Perhaps i was just a kind of easy lover man if that i could say it... But i couldn't said that i'm not a loyal partner... That's just me anyway...
@Blake20 (3)
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
I have cheated once. I was kinda not over with my ex-boyfriend at that time, so when he needed comforting, I was there for him. It turned out, "comforting" was not the only thing he needed at that time. After I've done that, it felt really awful. Sure, I still had feelings for for him, but it made me look stupid. And I really felt guilty whenever my present boyfriend and I made out. It was a very wrong thing to do, and my boyfriend didn't deserve that. Until now I feel guilty and sorry, although my boyfriend had already forgiven me.
