Is He Gay?

I would tell your boyfriend that, frankly, it is none of his business! I'm sure the brother isn't asking for personal details about your boyfriend and you If he suspects things, then good for him. Why does he need an answer? Will he stop loving his brother? I mean, if he is gay, so what? He's not an axe murderer or anything horrible like that

I would tell the boyfriend not to worry so much about it. If his brother wants people to know then he will say something, but if not, he might still be in the closet about the issue. But if this is really worrying him he could always ask his brother out to lunch for a "talk" and he could just ask basic questions and try to get to know his brother better. Maybe questions that pertain to women that he might be dating and just assume that he likes women and nothing about men unless his brother brings it up. If he just comes out and asks he might hurt his relationship with his brother and it might not be repaired. They would end up just tolerating each other. That would not be good. He and his brother just sound different to me and it sounds like they do have two different personalities and ways of life. I believe that it is ok for some men to be more sensitive than other men. Some women need or want men like that and some do not. I have known of many men that had interests that made them sound or look more feminine, but they were all married to women and had happy marriages with one or more kids. Maybe his brother is more sensitive than most men and just cares about those things in his life because they are passions of his heart. I believe also that more sensitive men know how to please women better, not saying that all men cannot but in my experience, I have always enjoyed the company of a man with a more sensitive side than the bad boy attitude that kills the moment. Good luck!

Hi there! I think your boyfriend's brother is old enough so asking him if he's gay is inappropriate at his age. If your boyfriend clearly sees the signs then it would be better not to ask so as to maintain the harmony in the family. The brother might not be ready to reveal his true self yet and if asked, he might get offended or awkward that his brother knows about his true gender. If I'm your boyfriend, I'll just let things be. Hope that helps. Ciao!

He's the brother, he can ask the dreaded question. But what's the point? If his bro is really gay, then what can he do? It's his personal choice, anyway. However, there's also the possibility that maybe he is just metrosexual. You know, guys who are vain, and only cares about how they look and how they act. Sometimes, people misunderstood them for being so feminine.

Well, I think if i were in the situation...I wouldn't ask at all. I don't really think there is a polite way of asking such a question and ultimately, the answer shouldn't matter. If he is in fact gay, he'll come out when HE's ready to.