are you selfish

I think it is not bad to be a little bit selfish sometimes. The thing is when we are selfish, we tend to maximize our gain which is a force to push us do better. Now, if our selfishness means to harm others, then it is a bad idea as it turns out that many more times, we lose more than we gain.

I am selfish to a point. Being raised as a only child helped that,Now I have a hubby who would buy me the world for my happiness. I try not to be its just not practical and causes hard feelings in the end.So I think its a terrible trait that ,I am still trying to kick.

Hi there! Well, it is not good to be selfish all the time although there are times when you just need to. I can say that I am not selfish because I do not live and think only for myself because I have my family whom I really love and I'm willing to sacrifice everything that I have for them including my life.