can you see your love with someone else?
By abanerji
@abanerji (1026)
India
July 27, 2009 9:52am CST
it is said that if you love someone but the person does not show interest in you then you must let the person go and let the person be with others. if the person comes back to you then the person was made for you otherwise the relationship was never destined.
can you let your love go..?
7 responses
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
27 Jul 09
Hi sis what a lovely discussion lol.
Yes I would let go for I have faith and trust on my love and I know she loves me in the sense that a man loves a woman and vice versa. But if I feel that this is going too loose and taking a different twist I would let her go forever. Thats all.
@abanerji (1026)
• India
30 Jul 09
hi dada,
trust and faith are a great binding force between two people. if they exist then there would be no other reason to move out.
anyway, if a person comes back then s/he realises the other person's importance in life. if one doesn't come back that means that one is happy elsewhere so better to forget than to weap over the issue.
@ChrysanTflower (1607)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 09
yes, I can easily let my love go if he doesn't love me,,lol,, sounds selfish but I think it's the best thing to do. It's already clear the person doesn't show interest on you, why you must think about him and not let him go? I really agree with people who said that words. If he doesn't come back then he's not for me, there's another man for me and another girl for him. If he come back then thanks God and that's all^^,,
life of many people in love would become easy with this kind of attitude...
@jules67 (2788)
• Philippines
27 Jul 09
Well I guess it is best to let go of the person if he does not reciprocate your love. Let him go his way and you as well. Move on. I know that it is hard at first but in time you will get over it. If he comes, you have to sort our your feelings very well. If you are willing to take some risk again and if you really feel it in your heart that you still love the person, then go ahead accept him. It would not be good for you if you try to restraint your love for him. Talk to him, and tell him that you are willing to take him back but bear in mind the consequences if it will happen again.
@abanerji (1026)
• India
30 Jul 09
i think if a person is allowed to go then on retuning their would be some or the other change in the person. sometimes the changes are acceptable but sometimes the changes can be negative. so i feel, you are right in saying that one should first find out if one is still ready to be with the per,son or not.
@nigarish (70)
• India
27 Jul 09
appreciated.....but i tell u don't believe love kinda things.....n if u r believing on these thing then u have to be creative and imaginative from yours side ....i simple means that let them walk out so that u may get the time to find out some one more lovable than that person......well i don't consider that the love in the life stops coming if some1 really near ditch u....so one come than the other......and if r talking about true love than i must tell u fren that it comes once in a life time......and never goes!!!!!
@shravandone (555)
• India
27 Jul 09
if ur love is really true one u are destined to get it.....its most often repeated dialogue of bollywood....
but that can happen anytime....it might be after u get married or even in ur late ages.....
so is it worth waitin for gone(atleast tempo)love or one should look forward for others??
@mnvamsi (539)
• India
27 Jul 09
Well I cannot let my love go away like that, but once you leave him to somebody else then, I think your should think of accepting him/her back again.
