response to my topic :will i take off my little small mole for love?

@cindy27 (130)
Philippines
July 27, 2009 12:12pm CST
i feel so sleepy and tired about this moment but i was awaken by all good advices i got from you. Thanks for everyone.. it really helps me. I realize that after talking to my boyfriend about the mole.. he just laugh in surprise that i take it too seriously. he says that he definitely don't care about it all he wants is to have me in his life even if it dangerous or not.. It words hit me, even if its kinda sweet with a little joke but i know he mean it. Now its clear to me that I should remove it. He proven me his love in many ways i know. and to add it up this confidence in me even his parents insisting to remove this mole he's just making his brave stand by telling them he don't care about it and its still up to me whether i should remove it or not. So maybe its just time to make my part in Proving him that i do love his this much also.. ill go to my derma and ask them to do the removal. i know my parents love me and they will surely understand it. after all if they could see me after its being done.. there's nothing they can do but to just accept it anyway right?
1 response
• United States
27 Jul 09
Just remember that he was serious, that does not mean that you have to prove your love also, atleast not in this way. At the same time, if it is not against your faith then go for it! I have several moles on my face that I plan on having removed for no other reason than I do not like them. Follow your heart in this manner and have a great day.
@cindy27 (130)
• Philippines
28 Jul 09
yap i can see that. and knowing of these days its quite normal to have this kind of mole removal.ya i will do it not for anyone else but also doing for myself. after all i don't to be just like them who make the blaming game. i know i should be responsible for it, its my decision so, i will do it for my self. Ill keep that in mind.