Staying Single or Getting maried

Pakistan
July 28, 2009 7:15am CST
I think staying single is better than getting married..Because to me..when you are having a girl friend..both live happily and share most pleasures of life..But why this blessed life goes wrong when both get married... I would like to know from you.. you experience and your views regarding this.................
5 responses
• Philippines
28 Jul 09
Being single is better when your still young and happy in girlfriend and boyfreind stage. Because you share your happy thoughts and pleasure in life. But you will not young forever. For the reason you want to stay single is becoz you don't want a life time commitment. Theres nothing wrong in married life. It is blessed by God. If both you have a good communication, never pass the night without talking the days activity and what will be tomorrow. To have a give and take relationship and team work you can have a successfull married life. The reason why married people separated is becoz of mis understanding, egos/ pride, the couple doesn't want to talk over the problems. Each one of them doesn't want to forget being single. And it suffer most is their children. So theres a broken family, divorse, separated. On other hand being single is good if you have your own child. Because your focus is the future of your child and you were not afraid that when you get old theres no one will take care of you.
@shhheila (1845)
• Philippines
28 Jul 09
staying single makes us do things what we want to do, but someday one will get married and start a family of his own.
@med889 (5941)
28 Jul 09
When I was single I thought I will remain single because I loved the way I was staying and taking up life, However when I met my boyfriend I think I am better this way but I am someone very practical so even If I do not marry with him I would love my single life again, I have learnt how to be in both situations.
@jules67 (2788)
• Philippines
28 Jul 09
Being single affords you to have the luxury of time. While being married sort of ties you with the commitment of family. It is not that I am against getting married, at the back of my mind it still comes once in a while. But for now I am happy the way my situation agrees with my schedule.
• South Africa
28 Jul 09
Definetly single,I got dumped 3 weeks ago and Iv never felt more happy! When ur single, you have alot of You time, so you concentrate on yourself.making "you" happy, i feel GREAT!!