love and relationships....

India
July 31, 2009 2:52am CST
one of my friend had a love affair before her marriage.... and once she got married to another person, she said.. " the love is mere a fantasy..... but now i am into a relationship...this is the reality". Is it true? do u agree with my friend?
3 responses
@jangos (1)
• India
3 Aug 09
it is mere perspective , how do you differentiate Love and a relationship? I personally feel Love is never a fantasy - It is a feeling that you feel for someone. relationships can be fantasies , but LOVE is never
• India
3 Aug 09
great... thts cool...
@tutor19us (455)
• India
31 Jul 09
No, it is not. Your friend says that just to feel happy. She just wants to justify her action. Maybe she was not very happy with the marriage but I am sure you will understand that if you are really into a relationship you would never want to get out of it for a petty reason. If there is a problem of commitment its best to move one. But I would say, give the relationship a chance to grow. Nurture it well. :)
• Philippines
31 Jul 09
what I can say is that love is not only being forever happy...there's always pain...You always have to be ready with complicated matters that will test your relationship. But what is important is that you love and trust each other...no matter how painful it is there's always joy after...Don't give up...