They said to me, "Bad Face"

face of me - this me ... Thanks God
@advokatku (4035)
Indonesia
July 31, 2009 10:30am CST
I know my face not handsame as tom cruise or jhonny depp. Yes, aim aware it. But why of they always insulting my face. They said 'bad face'. And I hate it. They always insult my face without feel boring and without feel wrong. Every day and even every time meet me, they said, "bad face"Beginning I feel fed up and angry. Will feel hit and fight with they but I know quantities of they more much. And aim aware, aim can't fight. Someday, when I walk, I meet they. Anda they said, "bad face"Somehow spirit from where, aim stop and walk to near they and said, "hey guys, you know who make my face? GOD. If you not like my face, said that to God. If aim can choose, course aim want face same tom cruise!"Since That moment, somehow they not again insult my face. So, for you all, if you not confident with your face. Dont change it. Still confident because with confident you can knowing why God make your face not same like as tom cruise or jhonny depp
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@MsTickle (25135)
• Australia
3 Aug 09
Actually, I think you are quite handsome...these people are simply jealous.
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@advokatku (4035)
• Indonesia
4 Aug 09
thanks, ms. I think my face very handsome but not like as johny depp.
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@MsTickle (25135)
• Australia
4 Aug 09
Johnny Depp? Phhfft! He was dashing looking and cute as a pirate but in real life he is not so noticeable, not so handsome.
@advokatku (4035)
• Indonesia
4 Aug 09
lol
@momiecat (997)
• United States
31 Jul 09
For what it is worth, I see nothing wrong with your face. The people that make negative comments about appearance are not your friends anyway. Beauty comes from within and if you like yourself, and are a kind person, others will like you also. You have to show confidence, happiness and sunshine and people will definitely like you. You are right, the creator made everyone with a different face (except for twins). Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder as they say. If you think you are ugly, show that in your disposition, then people will think the same about you. Never compare yourself with others. Tom Cruise and Johnny Depp are not that handsome, in my opinion. Do not mess with your face like Michael Jackson did. He was such an adorable kid, even with his large nose, and look what he turned himself into, a disfigured mess. You have to love yourself first, then others will love you for who you are, not for what you look like on the outside. Time does affect everyone equally. As we age, our outward appearance changes and no one escapes that. Look inward, not outward. Many people who have the looks, like Marilyn Monroe, for instance never feel they are beautiful and are unhappy with the way they look no matter what others think.
• Philippines
31 Jul 09
i agree with you momie cat..look what happen to MJ.
@advokatku (4035)
• Indonesia
4 Aug 09
thanks momie, I should thanks to God. I believe God give my face like this with a reason
@joan40 (4)
• United States
2 Aug 09
Jesus love's you just the way you are.
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@Hatley (164154)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Aug 09
right Joan and he doesnt make any ugly faces
@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
31 Jul 09
I think you're letting people get to you on this one. Doesn't matter what anybody tells you, unless you let words convert into emotions and affect you, you should not be concerned of what people say if those are negative things. You are the only one who decides what those words mean, if you feel them as insult and react to that, you need to work on it, you have the option to feel neutral. That's the key to it, YOU have the option to feel how you wish.
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@advokatku (4035)
• Indonesia
31 Jul 09
thanks guys for your opinion
@indahfth (11169)
• Indonesia
1 Aug 09
face it is not a big problem. Most importantly is our knowledge and action. face action if the bad-looking and stupid will not help.
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@jazzbabe (166)
• Philippines
1 Aug 09
I don't think there's anything wrong with your face. Don't let these people get through you. Just be your nice self always.
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@thea09 (18314)
• Greece
1 Aug 09
Hi advokatku, I've looked at your photos and would summarise as a strong and interesting face, intelligent looking. Personally I find Tom Cruise extremely unattractive so why would you want to look like him? We must all be confident in our own skins as it's the only one we are going to get and people who resort to insulting comments are very shallow.
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@amit2506 (233)
• India
1 Aug 09
Hey man who said you that you have a bad face. I think their sense of humor is not good. What happen's if you do not have a face like tom cruise or johnny. You are Vin Diesel of fast and furious. Just losse some weight and shave your head Then see who dares to say you that.
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• United States
1 Aug 09
People who say negative things about other people like there face, body etc.. There just trying to make themselves feel better about themselves. Everyone should be happy with what God gave us. Be thinkful!
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@shazz282 (177)
• New Zealand
1 Aug 09
Well I dont know what these people are talking about. There is nothing wrong with your face. Be proud of what god gave you & dont let others get to you. People who complain about others usually are so insecure about themselves that they take it out on other people around them. :o)
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
1 Aug 09
You got that straight! Taking people for their face or looks ,is the most shallow thing .It makes me sad to think older people are like this too.. I just thought it was nasty teens.
@shazz282 (177)
• New Zealand
1 Aug 09
Oh no... these days its the young & old that can be cruel. Usually, not in every case!! the negativaty comes from what they have been taught at home in there own back yards. Its cruel to think that such a thing happens but yet its so true. What is the world coming to, is all that I can say about this one.
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
2 Aug 09
I don't get out much ,except in my town and sometimes the city near us. I guess you are right because ,when in the city you should here people the way they talk to each other. I was raised by a heavy racist, and hated it.Always stabbing someone in the back no to their face. I just cannot imagine people being so cruel as to say it to your face. I would probably cry for days and lock myself in the house. Thanks for the info. Shazz
@Hatley (164154)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Aug 09
advokatku phooey on them you have a nice face, nothing wrong with with it at all. Handsome on outside and inside, let those p eople' who say mean things go to you know where. You let yourself know' you look very good, and God made you and he doesnt make'anything that looks bad.tom cruise isnt all that handsome,and you look' good and you look kind which is just as good. Remember you are' unique, one of a kind, good looking and kind looking and that' is very good so be proud please. good luck.
@advokatku (4035)
• Indonesia
21 Aug 09
thanks guys .... you the best
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
1 Aug 09
First off I think Tom Cruise is nothing to look at,And Johnny Depp is short . Someday you will find a person who see's, you for who you are not what you look like. I have never heard of people being so cruel except for kids. Please keep in mind that there will be people in your life who make you angry with their comments though hitting, them will just make you the same as them (immature) I hope that you can meet someone soon that excepts you for who you are not what you look like.I have many different types of friends some are slow,some a sick in the head. I have found these people to be the most interesting ,Every one is good at something.It just takes a mature person to get past the looks. The way I see it they are loosing by doing this to you. Happy my lotting and buck up cheerio
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
1 Aug 09
Personally ,I see nothing about your face that looks any different then the next guys.
• Philippines
31 Jul 09
hi advokatku. from what i understand, im glad that you found a way to express what you really feel and tell them to stop. now , if they still wont stop then its their problem already. anyways, we really cant erase those type of people on earth. there will always be people who let us feel down. whenever they do this, they make themselves feel better . what's important is how we deal with them, maybe just avoid them or something
@advokatku (4035)
• Indonesia
4 Aug 09
Yes, kuka, I deal with your opionion, very important to how we deal with them
• China
2 Aug 09
Advokatku,I strong support you. God sometime would closed one door,but he would open another one for you. For you,even you have not the very hansame face, but you obtain others more.
@Canellita (12051)
• United States
2 Aug 09
What would you say if I told you there are many who do not agree that Tom Cruise or Johnny Depp is handsome? Here is another question; when someone says you have a bad face, what is the expression you are wearing? Have you been happy and smiling? Beauty comes from within and is the result of one's love for oneself and life.
• Philippines
1 Aug 09
lol have pity on them instead coz they never appreciated god.. like what you just said.. it was god who created us through our parents... your face and our face was hand molded by god according to his own image. so if they dont like your face then that means they dont like god's image too.. No one can choose their own face not even our parents.. God made every creatures with a purpose.. so if god created your face like that, its his way to find out the attitude of other people like who is nice and not.. its his way to segregate the good and the bad.. and nobody is perfect.. if you saw someone with pretty or handsome face, you will never know what's behind their faces that make them the ugliest people on earth and only god will know... So cheer up face the day as happy as you could be. rather be happy than let other people ruined your day.
@jugsjugs (13038)
1 Aug 09
If i was you i would just ignore them as they seem very sad people trying to make some one else feel sad.The thing is at the end of the day they are the people who you can do with out i know it is hard and i know it can be very upsetting try not to hit anyone as you will be as bad as them.Try to keep happy.Happy Mylotting.
@ds6413 (2074)
• United States
1 Aug 09
Hello, with attitude like your so called friends they showed their true sense and nature and it is UGLY and it will show through in their own faces.Time to let those that try to insult you go. I see nothing wrong with the face you were given.
@angime (87)
1 Aug 09
Hello advokatku, don't let others what saying bad on your face affects you. They ane not "normal" or they are such an impolite person. Show some good things in you. Somehow there are guys out there can see your good heart.
@MNRFOLEY (438)
• Brisbane, Australia
1 Aug 09
I beg to disagree, there's nothing bad about how you look like, you're a well groomed, nice/intelligent looking guy. Those who are saying those things to you are people who lacks confidence and have problems with the way they looked themselves. Dont let them get the better of you.Keep your spirits up and stay happy:)