Tough Love...

@x_Jo_x (1040)
July 31, 2009 2:37pm CST
If you are in love with more than one person, how do you decide which one to be in a relationship with? Or If more than one person likes you, how do you decide who to be in a relationship with?
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@eLsMarie (4477)
• New Zealand
1 Aug 09
it's very possible that a particular person can be in love with two person, however, the feeling or level of affection is different... you may be madly in love with the other while only liking the other one... choose only one or else you'll end up losing the two of them at the same time...
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• United States
31 Jul 09
well i had this problem before. i wasn't in love but my heart went to one guy that i liked who didn't like me then two other guys liked me. and i liked them too but it was hard to choose because one had horrible skin was fat and was hilarious and very active. one wasn't funny skinny hot and wanted to have se x till marriage. it was hard to choose because yes the exact opposite and my choice was none of the above. because it wouldn't be this hard to choose if i really liked one guy more than the others. so i decided just to be friends to each of these guys and hope that if those feelings come back i would like one more than the other and i would just know in my heart which to go too.
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@magrylouyu (1627)
• United States
31 Jul 09
I have never had this problem before. I have been with my husband for 9 years. He was my first boyfriend when I was 14. Shortly before turning 20 I married him. I think if somebody loves more then one person, they need to decide who they love more. Who would they be happier spending their life with. Who would you be happier starting a family with. Who do you think would be the better parent if a child was to be brought into the world. They need to ask theirselves those kinds of questions. Then they should be able to decide who to be with.
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@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
31 Jul 09
Run it. Let it run like water. A time can be filtered naturally. Keep safe distance. Mate is set by God.
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