how it feels to be a cheater?...

I have never experienced to cheat on my girlfriends before nor on my wife right now, and I think if I will do it, it will makes me feel guilty. It is not right to cheat and hurt the one's you love and the one who are loving you so dearly. And you are right it is very painful to be cheated cause I have experienced it before.

cheaters feel guilty...

As far as cheating on someone, nope, it isn't something I do. Though I have been cheated on several times in my life. I just can't seem to find that special person that will work on a single relationship with me. Being cheated on especially if you have your all into that relationship can be devastating. It becomes very painful for quite awhile for some. Others can't seem to get over it and the trust isn't given so easily after that happens. Yes, I talk of my own experience, my heart has many scars that have taught me some hard lessons in my time. It will take one special person to get past that.

I Have been neither cheated on nor have i ever cheated. But i can only imagine it must be so painful to be cheated on! As for being a cheater... I think it really depends on the person. If it is someone who enjoys it and sleeps around with many different people then they probably feel good about it, and quite frankly they should be ashamed of themselves. If you do it because you are emotionally confused and in love with 2 people, then i imagine it would really hurt you to be doing that to a person you love. But lust still controls your actions. There is still no excuse for cheating though. You should be able to control yourself enough. I think if you should end a relationship rather than cheat!