what will you do?
By jelamar
@jelamar (44)
Philippines
August 1, 2009 11:00am CST
what will you do if you felt like you don't trust/love your partner anymore. for how many years that you and your partner been together. what would you do? or what would you choose? the happiness of you kids being with their father or your happiness being free at last from all the pains and sufferings?
Thanks!!!
6 responses
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
1 Aug 09
Kids thrive in a HAPPY home and if the home is NOT happy the children can feel it..If there is no love and no trust ,i do not think you should stay in a relationship just for the sake of the children..It would be best if you & hubby could work things out but if not then you should split...I will say though that a father is a very important part of a childs life as much as a mother is, so you need to keep on speaking terms with each other for the kids sake & do not talk bad about each other, just let the children know that you both love them & remain having the children have time with you & their father..as well...I do not know all your curcumstances so this is the best advice i can give you with what i know..
@gorjusmom (16)
• Philippines
3 Aug 09
I do believe that in a relationship the recipes are love, respect and trust...
if you loose any one of this,,, your relationship might give up... so if youre not happy in your relationship,,, you dont trust him anymore, and you dont respect him,, meaning you dont love him,, maybe youre just in love with the word Love...
as for your kids if you dont love him, respects, trust,,, your kids might feel it and kids now a dys are smart enough to understand that...
Besides you can be civil to each other for your own sake,,, you can talk about their future even if youre no longer a partner...
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
1 Aug 09
I've been with my husband for 12 years and there are circumstances that I feel, we still don't trust each other. There are times that I feel that I want to end it. We have 3 kids and as a mother, I would sacrifice my own happiness for them. I don't like them to grow up with a broken home. It will be really hard for them to cope up since they are still young. There are challenges and trials in every relationship and it's up for the couple how they would handle it. HUGZ always!
@clorissa123 (4926)
• United States
1 Aug 09
Well, I never been to the relationship of married yet. But I had been with this girl for while. Sometimes, I don't really trust her, so I guess that our relationship is in shaky shape. I might want to end it somehow. Because I did spend a lot of money on her, at the end, I didn't get nothing at all.
@terapidoe (67)
• Indonesia
1 Aug 09
I will say to her that we already do not match anymore and can not be united again. So we have to separate so that no one is hurt.
@windymyre (210)
• United States
1 Aug 09
My husband & I have been together for nearly 13 years & we've been married for 5 years. We do not have any kids. Our relationship surely isn't what it was years ago. Truthfully, I would like out of this relationship. My husband doesn't. I know this, because I've talked to him about it. He says we've been together too long to throw all this away. Of course he has it good, I work, he doesn't & I make decent money & we can go out & do things, plus we have a decent home to live in that we are buying & 2 cars that are paid for. I guess he just doesn't care that I'm unhappy.
