Why do we always hurt the one we love?
By raynejasper
@raynejasper (2322)
Philippines
August 3, 2009 3:49am CST
Sometimes, we do things unconsciously that hurts the one we love.. Sometimes, I do things that I regret afterwards.. but it's too late because I have already hurt him.. What should I do? Have you experienced like this before?
4 responses
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
3 Aug 09
Many times ! We always hurt those closest to us the most. All you can do is try to make it up to them, after treating or saying something hurtful.It has gotten me through a lot.When someone loves you they get to know your ways. They also except that this type of thing will happen.Just as long as you are strong enough to say your sorry is all that matters. Love is unconditional for most.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
3 Aug 09
..that's nice.. it seems you've already learned your lessons.. I'm still learning mine.. thanks..
@eLsMarie (4477)
• New Zealand
3 Aug 09
often times we tend to hurt our loved ones and it wasn't done intentionally. there are situations that can test our ability not to hurt our loved ones but we have to in order for us not to hurt them more. pain makes people realize what love really is and that's irony about it
@prashanthalva (2272)
• India
3 Aug 09
It Does Happen Sometimes, Most of the times It Happens Without your Knowledge .. When you think of Any Action Of yours You Can Conclude for Sure that you could Have done It Better .. But Can You Do it Again .. My Advice to you is Don't Repent try Not to do the Same Mistake Again .. Thank You .. Take Care ..
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
3 Aug 09
Hello rayne,
We always hurt someone we love becoz we always thought they will always undersatnd us.But the truth is...we are never considerate to consider their feelings when we do mistakes that caused them hurts.
I always think things before doing it,not to hurt someone i love,but,there are times that, we already done it and regretting things for what we have done,that leads hurting people around us.
The most important thing is,after doing mistakes,we should promised ourselves not to do it again,and that we should always learn from every mistakes we have ever done.And not like others that,after being forgiven,there again,doing the same mistakes.
In every relationship,forgiveness and honesty is what matters most.Thu truth always hurts,it is better to be hurt with the truth than being stays in a relationship full of lies.






