So you are pregnant?

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If you found out you were pregnant but you are not in a position to look after a child? Say you didnt have enough money, not in an enviroment suitable for raising a child, too young, not in a relationship and dont think you can cope on your own, mentally incapable of looking after a child, or simply just not ready. Any reason you can think of why YOU could not have a child, what would you do? 1) Have an abortion? 2) Have the child and do the best you can 3) Have the child but give it up for adoption? or any others that you can think of. I personally could never have an abortion. I think it is wrong, and no matter what situation i found myself in - I would be having the baby! I would feel too much like i was killing my child. I know up to a certain point the embryo isnt actually "A baby", but its still a living thing growing inside me! And to kill it before its even had a chance to live just seems so cruel. Then, depending on what situation i was in I would either keep the baby and try to do the best i could with it. No matter how much i planned to give it away i think i would fall in love with it the second i saw him or her! I really want a baby so for me to give it away would break my heart! Or if it really was impossible for me to keep it, i would find a suitable family to give it to. Somewhere where i KNEW it was going to be well looked after and loved and cared about! I would still be heartbroken though! What would you do?