hi, mylot ladies, what is your definition of a perfect man?
By vijayanths
@vijayanths (7877)
India
10 responses
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
4 Aug 09
Hello Vijay,
Perfect- can only be found in wikki dictionary(joke)
For me,a perfect man is someone who can be man enough to accept his mistakes and weakness and will try to change and overcome all his shortcomings.
Someone who is financially stable,a good provider as the bread winner.
Loving,and caring husband and a father.
Who gives quality time for his family even if he works 24/7 in a day and 8 days a week.
Understanding in many ways,even if i put thumbtacks inside his shoes,he will still smile and say " i love you "
Who will kiss me and say "you're a good cook" even if i cooked tasteless foods.
Most of all,he should be tall and handsome becoz appearance doesn't matter to me at all



@vijayanths (7877)
• India
4 Aug 09
Hey, Jaiho you are very simple. Your expectations are also pretty simple.However Your perfect man is to be made to order, not readily available anywhere as these are too simple.It looks like you are cooking tasteless food hehehe.What he should do if you cook tasty food.
Will you let me define a perfect woman dear jaiho?
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
5 Aug 09
I enjoy your humor and thanks for making me laugh.hmmm, my ideal woman will be caring, homely, loving, family oriented, intelligent and moral.
She needs not to be tall. She needs not to earn. She needs not to be very beautiful.She should be able to enjoy a joke and laugh. Simple woman is enough for me.Are you going to get me one with this qualifications jaiho?
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
5 Aug 09
Hello dear....hehehehe...i just want to be funny
,becoz maybe,my MADE TO ORDER MAN will come in reality someday(hahahaha).
uhmn...so,what's your ideal woman?
,becoz maybe,my MADE TO ORDER MAN will come in reality someday(hahahaha).
uhmn...so,what's your ideal woman?

@angelsmummy (1696)
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3 Aug 09
My defintion of the perfect man is my partner. He listens to me all the time not just when I tell him to, he is attentive to my needs. He cares more about me than he does himself, he will do anything for me and treats me like a princess.
If I am upset he will do everything and more to make me smile again and it doesnt stop there he is not content until I am laughing, he really is the perfect man, every woman should have a partner like mine and ladies before you ask... No I'm not sharing lol, he wouldnt let me even if I wanted to lol!
@angelsmummy (1696)
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3 Aug 09
Oh and I forgot to add he is GORGEOUS! The sexiest man I have ever seen doesnt get much better than this!! But I wont rub it in any more lol.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
3 Aug 09
Nice to hear that angel. Looks like you are in the peak of your love life.Wish you enjoy this life for ever...
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
4 Aug 09
'Nothing is good or bad but thinking makes it so'
In my opinion we are all imperfect human beings and so I would never attempt an answer to this topic. Similarly I do not think there is any perfect woman in the world.If we attempt to evaluate and mark down characteristics then there would be a lot of subjectivity in it.
As a broad classification I can say one thing--that man and woman who have a conscience, are humane and non-invasive , are normal and are not perverts are perfect.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
4 Aug 09
I fully agree with you that there is nothing like perfection, ideal in this world. But I just wanted your general opinions.Your thoughts are really good and I enjoy your discussion nicely.
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
4 Aug 09
My hubby of course. He is compassionate ,loving,supportive,humble,brave, when he has to be .There is so much more that's just some traits, that come to my mind. He is also Masculine baby face, with big hands &feet , Big shoulders , is the perfect man for me.....
The looks part of it is where it started.When I knew I had to have him.
Mr Perfect himself!!!!!! 

@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
4 Aug 09
I think my definition of a perfect man is:
kind
understandable
loyal
supportive
educated
faithful
reliable
I think I would prefer more of his personality than anything.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
5 Aug 09
ohh this id different. Huggable? I thought any one can hug any person.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
3 Aug 09
Wow. that is interesting wizzywig. I wish you could have added some more, hehehe.
@zoey7879 (3092)
• Quincy, Illinois
4 Aug 09
One that will admit that there's no such thing as perfection or a perfect being ;)
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
4 Aug 09
yes I agree with you. But we can discuss the topic in general, nothing wrong in it? That is why I started this discussion.
@sweet_christine (87)
• Philippines
4 Aug 09
I am a believer that there is no perfect man is just so happen that I love a imperfect man that makes him perfect to me. But I can provide you my ideas of a perfect man: 1. A perfect man should be neat, good groomed and good looking. 2. He is intelligent, speaks with sense and humorous. 3. He is understanding and he listens. 4. Religious and a believer of God. 5. He respects and a gentleman towards woman. 6. He is hardworking and is earning money for a living. 7. He takes care of himself and lives a healthy lifestyle. 8. Is Positive, optimistic and plans a better future. 9. And when he love, he only love to the one he truly loves, faithfully through the years. Hm, anything else? Perfect enough? That's my list.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
4 Aug 09
Perfectly perfect enough, where is he in this world? I really enjoyed your list sweet/ They are as sweet as your name and meaningful too.
@osris61 (107)
• United States
4 Aug 09
Hi, I feel my husband is the perfect man. We have been married now for 25 years. He is very good to me, he has never hit me, never cheated on me. He listens to me and is always there for me. He is a true gentleman and yes very good looking,lol I'm lucky to be with him.







