Do you Curse the one who broke your heart?
By andresimp
@andresimp (818)
India
August 4, 2009 9:16am CST
It is a human tendency that we burst out our emotions when someone breaks your trust. or if someone cheated on you. when you don't expect a betrayal from that person, you feel heart broken, do you curse that one person for sometime and forget about it or you take that issue further and do want to take revenge someday. i do not mean revenge literally but the thoughts of it, do you actually think that you would feel better when you curse or take revenge on that person.
thanks for the response in advance.
6 responses
@SurveyPrincess09 (338)
• United States
6 Aug 09
My dear Andresimp,
I see exactly what you are saying, however I also believe that what goes around comes around and that's why I don't do bad or wrong things to other. I was raised by do good and you will find good. For example If you cheat someone out of a dollar, next time around you will loose 10 times more. I am a strong believer in that. We have to remember as childrens of God, we have to just let it go and let Him take care of it. Remember, God never hit or curse back, when someone hit Him, He turned the other cheek eventhough He created us and He can distroy us like a little bug. Trust me, I know and understand that when someone hurts us by cheatting, lying, it does effect us very much and it hurts deeply, especially if we loved and trusted that person. We are only human. But try your best to let it go and always remember that they will get their share in life and it will come from somewhere else. And someday they might hurt twice as bad as they hurt us. Remember this one thing. No matter what we go thru in life, we will always be on top, we just have to keep the faith and keep on pushing to be better and better in everything we think and do.
We are prince and princess because our Father is the King of Kings. :)
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@andresimp (818)
• India
6 Aug 09
That was a wonderful explanation. it is hard for me to forget and forgive betrayal, cause i would be so hurt and wounded emotional. i like what you told that we just have to keep the faith and be better in everything we do and think.. and yeah i m the princess and my Father will protect me from evil. thank you so much.. you really gave me the courage to face the evil things in life. thanks for the response :)
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
7 Aug 09
No I don`t think so. He might hurt in so many ways but what the heck, he did made me happy when we were together. The hurt may really be painful but at least I had learn a lot and I think its worth the hurt because it has made become a better person on the process. Nice topic by the way.
@andresimp (818)
• India
10 Aug 09
that was a great answer. you take life too positive, right? i would say yes, i would have had better days, but thinking that he was deceiving me all these years, i cannot take it..that makes me really angry, i don't know how to help myself on that
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
23 Oct 09
I dont think I would curse the man who brokemy heart. I still care about him and i would want him to be happy. I dont think i would curse him or anyone for that matter. I would like to think that I would forgive someone who hurt me.
@meapas (2436)
• India
4 Aug 09
This word curse is missing in the dictionary of my life. I never act this way.
@anna728 (1499)
• United States
21 Aug 09
Not necessarily, it depends on the situation. If things didn't work out but the person was well-intentioned and never meant for me to get hurt, I can't be mad at them or blame them. But if someone were to cheat on me or do something else malicious, and I got my heart broken, I would hate them.
@madugulagopi (1093)
• India
25 Aug 09
Ha i know how it feels like when ur heart is broken because the person whom i loved the most broke my heart and left me.
I really don't want to accuse anyone but i can't control my emotions when memories of her come to me.In the starting days i Just sat and wept accusing GOd that he has been hard on me but now Iam trying to forget her..........
I wish her a happy life though she broke my heart because i loved her and still love her
