Do you push back OR do you get pushed around ?

South Africa
August 5, 2009 4:10am CST
Im very confident and Im not going to apologise for it.Im so sick of weak people, seriously. That have a low self-esteem . Firstly its called "SELF" -esteem NOT OUR esteem. So ,that means YOU gota PUMP up yourself.NOT me, not your boyfriend. YOU!! If you feel you're too Fat and thats why your unhappy, than do SUMTHING about it!! Go to gym ,eat healthy! If some-one keeps cheating on you or treating bad, ITS because YOU let them ! Stop acting like you don't HAVE a choice ! Confident people, are not MOST attractive people out there, they confident because they feel GOOD about themselves, because they GET up and Do things !! Theres ONLY two types of people in the world, the ones that do the pushing and the ones that get pushed around. Which one are you ?
4 responses
@judy1988 (117)
• China
5 Aug 09
I think I was the type of people that you are sick of ,but I am trying to change myself ,I`m on a diet ,I`m learning subjects Ilike,and also,I`m trying to get along with people,which is diffcult to me,cause I`m too shy to talk to people,I always feel embrassed when we are silence ,I don`t want to be someone that pushing or get pushed around,I just want to be a confident and happy people.
• South Africa
5 Aug 09
honey bunch,the only reason I was being so mean is to push the you guys to WAKE Up and to STOP living in FEAR because you're going to spend the rest of your life being HORRIBLE! I have alot of weak friends and it breaks my heart to see them go through pain,and not being happy,and being played ALL because they lacked the confidence IN them to pursuit happiness. They are weak,and the sad part about it is,Nobody can help them but themselves, but they just never realise it. So, im proud of you for atleast making that smal change,because it will lead to BIGGER things. But you can't blame the world for your pain, and you can't live your life in pain(thats so sad), but you gota push back and FIGHT, the pursuit of happiness luv. If you wana be happy, MAKE YOURSELF happy . keep smiling sunshine
@judy1988 (117)
• China
7 Aug 09
thanks I`ll try.
@Melbee11 (230)
• United States
26 Sep 09
I get push around most of the time. I don't like it but same time it's a good way to push your own self. Well I get pushed around mostly by my brothers and sister. So far the more they push me around I at least get something out of it.
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
26 Sep 09
Hey, Well I don't really push back, even though I can, and am big enough to do so. I am the sort of guy that gets pushed around no matter what people say. I just try to be nice, and yet some people take advantage of that. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
5 Aug 09
neither...i would never push anyone around...my parents raised me well to respect other people, and treat others nicely. however, i am the type who would never be pushed around either...