have u ever hated anyone ?

@54susan (281)
China
August 5, 2009 8:10am CST
i met a man in a restrant last week .he's a waiter there.though he smiled to me politely ,still ,i dont like him.or ,be more exactly,i hated him.i dont know why ,maybe it's his long hair made me sick or something .just a think of him made me no appetite .so i decided not to go to that restrant any more . dont know what the problem with me ..... do u have such experience before ?to hate someone with no reason or have u hated anyone ?and why ?
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11 Oct 09
Wow wow wow, hating someone by judging his outer appearance. =) No, I don't do that. I always have valid reason for hating someone, but when it comes to external outlook, there will be no reason for me to hate him unless I have bad experience with him at the same time. I really really hate someone because she (who is half century older than me) once took part in my private live and almost ruined my family life. But thank God nothing happened afterall. =) That's why I hate her with all my life. I know I know that hating someone is against the nature law, but when someone makes a mistake upon you, it is more nature that you don't or can not appreciate it. =)
@54susan (281)
• China
11 Oct 09
maybe i shouldnt have used the word hate.think i just dong like him.his out look reminded me of some nasty guys...just that.sometimes i think,we can also jude a ppl from his ourlook,his behaviour and his eyes...
@sid556 (30989)
• United States
21 Aug 09
Can't say that I have felt quite that strongly about someone that I don't even know. I have met people that I get an uneasy feeling about right off but that is usually after at least some conversation or interaction. I have never met someone and right of hated them for no reason.
@54susan (281)
• China
21 Aug 09
i thought he's just the kind of guy that will do sth evil. maybe i understand the word hate in a different way ...
• United States
21 Aug 09
I have disliked someone before without reason. Sometimes I just get a bad vibe from them or I have only heard horrible things about them and so I form bad preconceptions. However, hate is such a strong word. I am not sure that you can hate someone without a reason just like I don't think that you can love someone without really knowing them or having a reason(subconscious or not) Maybe the waiter subconsciously reminded you of someone or something but other than that maybe you just disliked him.
@54susan (281)
• China
21 Aug 09
maybe yeah, i should use the word dislike.but u know ,when i met him .he made me feel sick.long hair,smoking ,walked like a woman.at first ,i thought he's a woman.but after i heard his voice ,i knew he's a man.he 's just the kind of bad guy i can immagine.maybe that's the reason i disliked him ...
@gunagohan (3415)
• India
11 Aug 09
i never had this experience of hating an unknown person without a reason...but i hate people with reason very much..i will tell abt my life.... basically i wont talk much to the public..i always concentate in this virtual world..that is computer world.. because i hate the people outside..... i will tell the reason, i used to be a normal human being when i was doing my school, but after i reached my college, i saw the real face of people...i was betrayed for many reasons and for many times, so i decided to keep my mouth shut...i always think that the person who is betraying me will suffer in the future, they have a long way to go...they will realize their sin one day.. i never like talking to people in the world except a few...
@54susan (281)
• China
14 Aug 09
betrayed by others? how ?
@besthope44 (12141)
• India
17 Jul 10
Well i never hated anyone, i forgive them.