What would you do it a friend wanted to delete you?

Thanks for your response JheLaichie. They probably would never tell you the truth even if they have their own reasons. Deep down I have my own thoughts on why the person wanted to delete me. But it they were the one that wanted to start the friendship in the first place. So I'll have no worries if they want to end it, as it was a very weak one anyways. Happy mylot.

Thanks for sharing Improbability. The thing about it is this, whenever I do happen to call they try to act like their attention is in other places. So I don't see much need to call someone if I'm going to be totally ignored when I do happen to call. I tend to think this person wants to have their cake and eat it too. I'm not going to waste my time to keep calling if they have nothing to say. A friendship is something which takes two people to participate. If one has lost interest there is no need in trying to keep it going. Yes, I think it was pure manipulation but not to worry it's not going to work with me. I can delete them tooand I may not even tell them about it!

totally agree. a real friend would never delete u

If a friend wanted to delete you? Smile, thanks for sharing Submerryn, I feel exactly the same was as you do. When they called I told them if that's what they want to do then that will be just fine. There was never any questions asked afterward and conversation went on as normal. But perhaps that was the beginning of a conversation that should have taken place a long time ago. So I will just go on and leave things to work it's way out. If they want to delete me, I'm not going to sweat or fret over the matter. It would be their loss instead of mine because I know that I'm a great friend and when a person's life is built on sinking sands they are reaching out trying to find the real thing. Even though my life isn't perfect I have a very solid foundation of truths from which I try to live by. So that is why I told them go on and delete me if that is what you want to do. I'm certain that I won't be hurt by it even though I may miss them just a little.

If a friend wants to delete you? Hello AjithAnnadurai, Thanks for sharing, I know just what you mean, if they can't use you then they have no need for you. So if they want delete you then you will happily allow them that privilege. Maybe I will have to have a very serious conversation with the person and tell them that I am not up for joking around. A true friend wouldn't joke about something like that. In the back of my mind I think they really do want to delete me but they don't know how to come out and be adult about it. Please add me as a friend because I'm only looking for true friends too. Thanx in advance.