Found the man or woman of your dreams?

@Citychic (4071)
United States
August 5, 2009 2:00pm CST
Hey friends, I want to know how many of mylotter friends think they are found the man or woman of their dreams. Also I would like to know who is still looking? Tell me whatever story you'd like to tell me about this person and why you think that he or she is the one. Think about it hard before you answer and I will get back with you soon.I look forward to reading your stories! Happy mylot!
2 responses
@skyhss (1142)
• United States
7 Aug 09
i'm not sure if the "one" yet but...i met a great guy here on mylot. we started out just being friends but somewhere the relationship changed and has become a lot more. he's my best friend, i can tell him anything and he can tell me anything, we have never judged each other or assumed anything about the other. we've talk on the phone and online for hours getting to know each other and i'm going to visit him in 13 days:)
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@Citychic (4071)
• United States
8 Aug 09
Finding your Mr. Right......... Well take your time with him my dear, that is all that I have to say about this. Please be careful. Be sure to meet him out in a public place and don't assume anything. Just sharing with you a few things that I've learned along the way as far as online relationships go. Sometimes it works out, other times it doesn't. So just be careful and hopefully we'll continue to see you around here at mylot. thanks for sharing.........
@jugsjugs (13038)
5 Aug 09
I thought i had found the man of my dreams for lots of years only to find out that we have got more distant in the last few years.I have been married to my huband now for nearly 13 years.In the last few years all we have done is argue.Then we had other family members trying to cause arguements amongst the family by saying things like my husband is only here for his children and other things along those lines.This still plays on my mind as we have not had a close loving marriage ror over 8 months now and we seem to be more like friends than anything else.So i did think i had found Mr Right only to find out he is no longer the same person.
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@Citychic (4071)
• United States
8 Aug 09
Finding Mr. or Mrs. Right! Thanks for sharing JugsJugs. It's good to hear that at one time you thought you had found your Mr.Right. It's funny how in the beginning, all of them seem like they could have the potential to be a Mr.Right but then it seems something happens along the way. Anyhow, I feel like it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. I think that when children come into the picture it changes things dramatically between a couple. Along with family members saying things that isn't exactly uplifting and inspiring. If you really want to make things work you might want to distance yourself from the family members that are causing the problems and try to focus on seeing the good that is in your Mr. Right. In all relationships there are ups and downs. So if you feel like it's worth it, then hang on in there and just give it some time. I often say if I can look at that person in the face and see certain qualities that I have in myself. Then just maybe we can make it work. Also writing down the pros and cons concerning him meeting your needs are also helpful. Who knows, even though he's not exactly your Mr.Right, he just might turn out to be. It will really depend on you and on what you want from the relationship. Wishing you the best, Happy mylot!