What would you do if you took down a picture and found a hole under it---

United States
August 5, 2009 8:51pm CST
I took down my wedding picture,(many years and a marriage ago) and found that the ex had drilled a hole behind it so that he could watch my 14 year old daughter dress. I just screamed (glad the kids weren't home!) and had his bags packed and by the door when he got home from work. (I worked days and he worked nights) My question is: What would you do and would you ever be able to forgive him?
3 responses
@webearn99 (1742)
• India
6 Aug 09
I understand your reaction and support it. The worm has no place in your life or your home. He needs to be isolated from society and law will take care of it. However where forgiveness is concerned, I would do it with my heart. Hate is a baggage no one afford. It will certainly take me down! This does not mean I forget! This incidence will teach me to be more careful in future relationships.
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
6 Aug 09
I'd do the same as cobrateacher would but without the crying and moaning. I'll just call the police and have my disgusting hubby picked up.
• United States
6 Aug 09
Hi, PSmith! I'd probably be a puddle of despair, crying and moaning as I packed those bags while awaiting the presence of the police I'd called. There's no forgiveness for such a horrible thing.