How to find a true friend on line?

its not easy to find real friends online. it will take an extra time. remember that this is only internet. you never been with them to feel how real they are. even those friends that we have in real life. we cant still say how real they are.. only time will tell.. but me, i already meet a real friend online. his a muslim. i remember when i was on college. i dont know how to chat that time. what i know is email and searching over the net for my class subject. tell my professor give us a certain topic about what we can say about muslim people. during that time.. the war against muslim and US is so intimate. way back the fall of the 2 great tower in US.. i was thinking where can i find muslim people to talk with. then a certain friend told me that theres too many muslim in chat.. so i tried it and i meet him there. his a businessman but very down to earth. he gladly help me to put up my topic in class. we met and his so kind. he never ever took advantage on me physically. he once told me that we will be bestfriend for life. he taught me a lot of things and helped me a lot.. and we exchange gift and all. its already been a decade now and we are happy for that. a real friend really exist.

Ive encountered hundreds of people online... Met/shared a flat with some, dated some.. Others, we've just talked on the phone and online, as well as penpalled and sent packages back and forth between different countries. Out of those hundreds of people that I met about 13 years ago, only one of them has kept in touch throughout the years and makes an effort to do so. Out of the last two or so years, only one of them. SO yes, it is possible... But take care with your trust and emotions.

Its very difficult to find a true friends on line. You will need to have time to research and to select whom of them are true. But you know I found a real friend in here.But it takes time since you are only chatting and talking over the phone, one day she went home and we met and its very good to be with her. I really found a big sister were in I can lean on to her shoulders. We shared a lot of knoweledge, experiences in life, share a lot of activities together. Very nice to have friends like this.We need to be very smart in selectiong whom you want to be your friends.

Yes I have found a few true friends online and sometimes these friendships have been even better than the ones in real life. For example, I have found one guy online and we started writing and chatting everyday, and we became so close in a matter of a few weeks, no he calls me 'didi' which means sister in the Hindi language and I too have adopted him like a younger brother. He tells me his problems and I give him some support and likewise I can tell him some of my practical problems and he does his best to help. I feel a very supportive vibe with him indeed. Now he lives quite far from me in Mumbai, and the amount of time we have spent online together is something we could not have done together in real life due to the distance factor. Also I find it somehow easier to talk to people online, as one can do it from the comfort of their own home, fit it into their own time schedule and one doesn't have to bother with formalities of doing the full hostess routine, although this can be nice but challenging if you are pressed for time etc. I also feel it good because people can be more themselves as no one is directly sitting infront of you and putting you off by their facial expressions and also no one interrupts you when you are talking. I hate this in people sometime, alot of people don't allow you to finish your sentence and don't know how to LISTEN with the heart and respond. So I like it that when I write I can write freely and actually express myself, without interruptions and then when I read someones response, I can actually feel and think about what they have written and then respond, maybe in a day or in an hour, or sometimes instantly. It kind of makes the whole thing more meaningful to me. All I have to go by is their vibe which one can feel, it's like the light of their soul comes and fills my room and I get to feel them rather than the mind kicking in and thinking about them by seeing their looks,dress sense, age and ethnicity. It reminds me of an interview that John Lennon did with Yoko, where they both put black bin liners on their heads and bodies and then spoke to the press, the point of this was that they were saying not to judge people by their looks, age and colour of their skin etc. That these things often get in the way and cause a bias opinion. Obviously there are dangers with online friends too, as you don't really know where they live and if what they are telling is the truth! But I don't feel really threatened by this, because I feel that I have enough life experience to know who is for real and who is for not and the thing is to take it slow and just to do right by myside, there's nothing to loose. And slowly if I wish I can meet people if it possible etc. I don't believe that if a person gives their real name straight away is an indication that they are real or not. As there could be many reasons for this and sometimes very sensible ones too. For example in my case it's that, I have just joined mylot and never really knew what to expect, I had no idea what type of community it was, or what type of vibe it has. So I didn't feel comfortable giving my name straight away. I felt it best to test the waters first and see what Mylot was really like and then give my name to a few people who I strike a good chord with. Also I don't tend to join discussion sites much (Myliot is an exception) and I often forget my username, so I have used my email id, as this is something I can never forget. Also my email id: sritrinity, refers to something very meaningful to me, it refers to Holy Trinity in Christianity, but as I am not a Christian I have added Sri to it which is Hindi. I find this username/Id encloses me and others who I write to in a spiritual vibration and reminds me that we are all Gods children. Anyway, everyone is different, I'm sure some usernames have meanings and some none at all. But I believe you really know a person through their heart and soul and not by their name. I know lots of people's names....but it doesn't mean that I actually KNOW them or like them. I think it's best to enter things with an open mind, and not to miss out on the opportunity of sharing love and friendship, but at the same time take things slow as this world is also full of hurtful people...by the way my friends know me as Angelie.....hehehe

To find a true friend on line, according my experience thats : 1. See profile her/him. 2. Find profile with fhoto. 3. If any her/him have ID media chatting, yahoo masseger, gtalk etc. Try invite to chatt. 4. If her/him give number contact. Try call. 5. If step 1 - 4 has you do. Try request make appointment a meet Simple right ?