What would you do when you feel lonely

@fly001 (30)
China
August 7, 2009 4:57am CST
Now I am working in a small town near the sea. There are not too many colleagues here. Family is far away. When i sit on the seashore. I feel lonely indeed. What is you suggestion when you in my shoes?
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8 responses
• India
20 Aug 09
Listen to your favourite music . You are on the seashore so if u enjoy your favourite music that will add up to your joy and all your loneliness will go .
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@sweety_81 (2124)
• India
20 Aug 09
For the situation like yours I will try to engage myself somewhere.Like I'll start reading a book of my interest or I go for shopping,I'll go to my colleague house,I work on internet,go to see movie, last but not the least I 'll watch television .Because spending time alone is very bad as it may take you to depression which is not good.So try to do such things which could make you happy.So do something rather sitting alone and try to make some good friends there.
• Canada
8 Aug 09
I would call friend to talk too.
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@madhuvamsi (1185)
• India
19 Aug 09
very good question you had asked. When I am alone, I will listen to music, see movies and sometimes, I will go out to kill loneliness but frankly speaking I never like be alone generally. I will make friends easily.. But sometimes, I feel to be very alone when I feel exhausted, then I will sleep without doing anything.. If I am in your situation then I will soon marry and bring a partner or do the same thing which you are doing is that sit on the seashore but instead of watching nature, I will watch the chicks who are going around on the beach.. :)
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@lazeebee (5461)
• Malaysia
7 Aug 09
Hi, I don't really know your interests, so I'm not sure whether my suggestion would be suitable. Anyway, I am comfortable with myself, and enjoy being alone. I like to read, watch tv or go online. If I'm staying near the sea, and far away from friends and family, I would take my books and read at the beach. Of course, if there are no books, tv or computer, I would most probably go crazy! . So take care, make some friends and be happy!
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@abanerji (1026)
• India
10 Aug 09
when i feel lonely i give a call to my special friends and speak to them for some time... after the talk i get back to normal. in case i cannot get them over a call then i write something and engage my mind into deep thinking and forget that i was feeling lonely
• India
19 Aug 09
wow that's cool appraoch to kill loneliness.. I too write blogs and love writing.. Do you write even poems as well...
• India
7 Aug 09
listen to some good music, sleep for some time... these are the basic ways which you can do. or chat with someone... i mean online chatting... do u have net connection at ur room...? then keep in touch with your friends, send mails to them... join some social networking sites like orkut, facebook etc... do some online job... so u will never feel alone.. u will be busy all the time....be in mylot.... its also a wonderful site... u can have lot of friends and discussions... etc... u will enjoy it..... happy mylotting.... and be happy always...
• Iran
7 May 11
If you boring about everything or better to say if u cant do anything, what would u do then? feeling tired all the time , everything is same as yesterday was! When I sleep in this case i would be more boring after get up! how i can fix my problem?