Why not me?
August 7, 2009 6:38am CST
Have you ever try to ask yourself somehow about why they didnt choose you instead of them. What did you feel if they choose someone upon thinking that you are more qualified and that you are the best than the one that they choose.. it can be in anything.. work, love, family and etc... I always been into that, first work? i was promoted yes.. but its not the job that i really wanted. theres 2 available position for promotion that time and the one that i didnt like was the one assigned to me... i wonder why, whats in me and whats in that person that they assigned in the other position, Then in terms of love, My last serious relationship that i though that was it was then turned out to be nothing.. They guy went abroad supposedly to earn for our future but then theres another girl there and they got married. so again, i ask myself why not me... How about you?
• United States
7 Aug 09
i suppose i did that a lot in the past. But growing up, I learned that when that question started "why not me", to make it simple it's just [b][/b]NOT MEANT TO BE And I just tell myself because there something better for me than that ! I didn't get that job, because there is better job for me I didn't married him, because there is better man for me.
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8 Aug 09
there are a lot of question in life that are really hard to answer. and we wont find the answer right at the moment. there will be answer but the answer only comes out after many years. why not me or sometimes why me? my cousin once told me that God has a different humor sometimes its funny and sometimes it is not but there is always a reason for that, but we can understand it later on in life. its like a childs question to parents, sometimes we parent knows the answer but cant explain it right away to our children and all we will say is in time you will know.