-Roses and Bullets for my Valentine

@jimmy87 (475)
August 8, 2009 8:22pm CST
Betrayed..Dumped..Cheated.. It has been one year since my ex-girlfriend left me on this same day. I have moved on and got a new girlfriend,who loves me very much,but I have not been able to get over her. I loved her so much... Why on earth did she leave me,I couldn't understand. How could I get over her.. I want to forget her forever,but I couldn't get over her.. What should I do?
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@phyrre (2317)
• United States
9 Aug 09
I would just take it bit by bit. It's natural that you still care about her to some extent. I still care about my ex-boyfriend, the one I dated before my husband. I didn't love him when I dated him, though, and I don't love him now, but I still care about him and want him to be happy. Once you've spend so much time with a person and loved them it's hard to get over them. Sometimes there's still a part of you that loves them. But if you've moved on and have another girlfriend who you love then I'd say you're definitely heading in the right direction. sometimes all it takes is time to forget. Take the time to appreciate the fact that you're in a good relationship with someone you love who loves you back and eventually you'll start moving past your ex. ^_^
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@fwidman (11514)
• United States
9 Aug 09
First, I'd suggest you get rid of your current girlfriend. You aren't doing her any favors if you are still pining after the old girlfriend Then stay away from any partners until you get your head on straight and can be a genuine partner for someone else
@jimmy87 (475)
• India
9 Aug 09
I feel so frustrated..I can't understand what to do..
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Aug 09
what are you thinking, roses and bullets, shame, dont be rash and get sent to the jailhouse because of a girl that betrayed you. now about your new girl, how can you love another girl when you are still in love with the past one. let her go. You have unfinished business before you give your heart to another person,its not fair to her while you are pining for the one who left you. you must move on but not with any girl yet. get over the past girl first.go see the girl, talk it out,if she doesnt ever want to see you again, say farewell sayonara, good bye,adiew farewell,ta ta chick I am out of here. then wait for awhile before jumping into a new relationship with anyone.
@yelrihs (298)
• Australia
9 Aug 09
yeah.. unless you can get over your ex, you should not be in a relationship with another girl, its very unfair for your gf. the last time i was dumped, i did not get over him for 2 years.. what i did, i just get myself really busy to cease the day, so i dont have the chance to even think about him, then without realizing i met this other guy and fell in love, and that was it. i was totally over him when i met my current bf.. good luck with yours :)