How To Make Marriage/Relationship Work For You

India
August 9, 2009 9:25am CST
It takes not two, but one to make a marriage work. It just needs you to believe that the solution to your problem lies within the boundaries of your marriage and that divorce is not an option. You may not be the one who wants to get out but that doesn't mean that you are helpless. You need to look the relationship from a different perspective. What are your thoughts?
1 response
• South Africa
9 Aug 09
I was just married in December. Marriage has been great. Our relationship has gotten so much better. Some people get scared by commitment. I don't see why though. I've always said if you aern't 100% sure then don't get married. People take marriage lightly when its a very serious thing and it is hard work. I find communicating is most important. A simple rule I live by with my wife is never go to bed angry. If it takes the whole night to sort things out then that's what we do. Accept your partner and don't try to change them but both people must be willing to compromise. I disagree about a marriage only needing one person to make it work. It takes both people putting in equal effort. Otherwise the marriage will fail.