If your lover forget your birthday every year, what do you think?

@kariter (138)
China
August 9, 2009 9:35pm CST
Lover means the person who loves you. She or he may be your husband ? your wife ,your boyfriend or your girlfriend. He or she forgets your birday every year, what do you think? And what will you do? Will you be sad? Will you remind him? Or don't tell him only let your brithday be gone without his blessing!
5 responses
• Malaysia
11 Aug 09
Very simple answer and no need to think hard about this thing, just go to tattoo shop and both parties got tattooed on the wrist part. Now many celebrities already done this kind of 'life love mark", including David Beckham.
@kariter (138)
• China
11 Aug 09
That's good ! Thanks for your response!~
1 Feb 10
my birthday was 2 days ago and my lover forgot it .i'm sad alittle bit but i'm happy that i still have him as a friend before alover
• Singapore
13 Apr 10
well, it's kind of difficult to answer that. maybe that's men's nature. in my case, he remembers my birthday, greeted me, yet never gave me anything. still, it's not enough. and i am not asking him to give me something expensive. i just want him at least give me a treat, let's say a dinner. but nothing. or maybe i am just being unreasonable. but, anyway, i think they're just men. if he loves you ( i mean, REALLY loves you), you may forgive him.
• Philippines
10 Aug 09
if my partner forgot my birthday its a big issue for me. why? it only means he did not not value the day of my birth. in this case i am so sensitive because if he forgot to greet me on my birthday so what more he can remember the day of our anniversary. i maybe so rude but man should be particular in remembering special dates.
@kariter (138)
• China
10 Aug 09
Thanks for your reponse!But it's true many men forget their lovers' birthday!
@davido (1623)
• Canada
11 Aug 09
Rossy, been a while, well i am someone that is not good with dates so i use my organizer to set alarma for me...but not that mobile phones is the main thing it make me get worse....i even forget sometimes my own birthday...but funnilly i remember every other past details! God help me....i hope you still like me....hahaha
@davido (1623)
• Canada
11 Aug 09
Rossy, been a while, well i am someone that is not good with dates so i use my organizer to set alarma for me...but not that mobile phones is the main thing it make me get worse....i even forget sometimes my own birthday...but funnilly i remember every other past details! God help me....i hope you still like me....hahaha
@vasavi20 (293)
• India
10 Aug 09
if he forgets my birthday..what can i do..just showing my anger and nothing much can happen and which leads to some distractions between us...and i will upset and sad for sure but can't do anything in it..i will check with whether he really loves or not..then will decide what to do
@kariter (138)
• China
10 Aug 09
I really don't know what yo do. He forget my birday maybe just because his carelessness.Do you think so?
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
10 Aug 09
I'm hate birthday, because for me, birthday is reduction of our age. So, If my lover forget my birthday thats very good and I does not do anything because that my hope.
@kariter (138)
• China
10 Aug 09
Your ideas are special! Thanks for your response!
• Portugal
22 Oct 10
if your lover does that to you you should tell him. if all years is the same thing just tell him that you are sick that he never remembers your birthday. that is important to you that he remembers so you can spend a happy day with him^^ im sure he will say sorry and you will have a happy day ^^ and he wont forget again^^ just talk with him and say that that made you feel sad. im sure he wont forget again^^ can even put a reminder in his cellphone^^